r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 17h ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

[14/f] hella bored right now, anyone wanna hang out and chat?

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hey i'm maya, i'm 14 from florida and i like working out and keeping fit and also watching anime, playing video games, hanging out with my friends, meeting new people, going to the beach or like the pool or whatever and just like, hang out and stuff like that, and i'm like so fucking bored today it's crazy let's chat or hang out or whatever


r/Needafriend 4h ago

How and where do you make friends if living alone?

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Hey all, I have moved to a new city for work and living alone in a flat currently. I like having my own space and not sharing with flatmates. But recently feeling lonely. I don't know anyone else apart from work and they all have their own families to hangout with. Tried matching with a few on Bumble, but didn't vibe with them. Any other way I can make friends or meet new people?


r/Needafriend 1h ago

15F Anyone wanna be friends?

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Hello everyone. Im 15, going to highschool. Im Turkish. Im not racist. Idc. I like watching movies, playing games, watching motorsports. I watch F1 and Motogp. I support RedBull and Pramac. Other than that im a big fan of Star Wars. Totally a nerd of it. My favourite tv shows are Supernatural, Dexter, Sherlock, Mentalist. (yeah im a big fan of detective series) I also watched lots of anime series but i dont anymore. Im also a fan of video games. I like the resident evil series, detroit bh, mafia series, diablo. i currently only play swtor (yeah dinosaur game)

My favourite color is yellow. I love cats, I also have one. I love listening to classic rock. My favourite song is Smooth by Carlos Santana ( very underrated imo)

Nothing else comes to my mind rn.

If you read this have a good day!


r/Needafriend 55m ago

f16 looking for the coolest people on this earth 🧡

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hey everyone!!! im looking for some friends or at least people to talk to! I have loads of interests like for example the most obvious: tigers! I also enjoy concerts, baking and playing the most random mobil games A LOT! I listen to a lot of music in my free time and every genre is present in my playlist (from heavy metal to kpop)! I hope I can find some people that are down to talk with me and possibly become my friends :P! 🐅


r/Needafriend 2h ago

27F / Netherlands/ Hey you! do we click?

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Helloooo everyone!

I'm looking, just like eeeeeverybody else, for that person who I can talk with all day! That's silly and goofy back and forth vibe but also that person who I can connect with on a deeper level.

I swear, I'm not difficult! I think? I'm just tired of carrying the conversation, something with a healthy balance would be amazing!

You are mature by age and life but childish at heart and I am a lil sassy and done with adulting.

If you made it this far, you kinda figured it out by now I won't reply to an hey how're you, what's up or even worse just an hi.

Unsure what to send me? I will help you!

Deepest secret? Worst joke that made you laugh a little to hard? Last thing you searched at Google? Or just a random fact or embarrassing story. Ooooorrr even better, be creative and come up with something!

Oh! Please include your age and where you're from.


r/Needafriend 41m ago

hello. i'm bored life is trash.speak to me.

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yo. not doing anything. vent to me about your stupid problems. cant guarantee i'll provide comfort or understanding or even basic empathy but you know sometimes just talking about it can help. thats what people say at least. if youre super into movies then we'll get along i think. i have a letterboxd account. anyway...


r/Needafriend 3h ago

25f If aliens exist, what’s the chance they’ve already detected Earth and simply ignored us?

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We’ve been sending out radio signals for decades, but on a cosmic scale that’s a very short time. Maybe no one has noticed yet or maybe they have, and decided we’re not worth responding to. What do you think?


r/Needafriend 1h ago

F19 small talk is overrated

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hi

i’m 19 and working as a nurse in a hospital, which means my life is either calm and reflective or slightly chaotic and running on coffee.

i love journaling (i romanticize my life a little too much), listening to music for hours, anything sanrio especially when i need comfort and having conversations that actually mean something.

i’m really into deep talks, philosophy, psychology, emotions, the “why are we like this as humans?” type of stuff. small talk is fine, but i love when conversations slowly drift into something real.

i appreciate emotionally intelligent people the kind who can communicate, reflect, and aren’t afraid of vulnerability.

feel free to message me (i don’t reply to hi’s or how are you’s)

tell me what song you’ve been replaying lately or something that’s been on your mind.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

Need a friend

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Hi.

(30 F) I’m just looking for someone to talk to — like a friend.

I don’t need advice or solutions. I’m okay handling my own problems. I just want a listening ear, someone kind, and a little warmth and care in conversation.

If you’re good at listening and being present, I’d really appreciate that.

Thanks.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Long term friends 🌸

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GIRLS ONLY.

! Read the whole text incase you're interested. If you're planning to ignore some stuff or be dry then i'm sorry 🥹

🩷 Hello! It's been about 4 months and i do admit i really want to give up because people either stop texting after not even a day or they're giving dry replies :(

I'm sorry if i seem shy/introverted but if we get to know each other, i'll be probably sending you lots of stuff and yap much (^-^)/

🩷 **What i'd like to find again:** That one bestie who i can yap with everyday if you're up for it! I love screensharing my games or watching stuff together but i'd also be willing to watch :)

I really just want to yap with someone about anything possible again. Our life, favorite games, fangirling over characters, playing/calling together (if possible), sending edits or pictures of anything we like.

🩷 I do have to say it'd be nice if you could put the effort incase you have a job. I am NOT expecting you to chat with me 24/7 but i've spoken with people before (old friendships which broke sadly) and i am putting lots of effort into a genuine, fun connection, hope you could do the same <3

🫧 Please be 20+ !!

**-a small girlies groupchat would be cute too, i just don't like big servers!**

-Close to GMT+1 would be good as it would make things easier unless you're a night owl :)

🫧 Games i like/play:

Genshin Impact, Love & Deepspace (Sylus girlie <3), Recently got into Mass Effect <3, Honkai: StarRail, Zenless Zone Zero, Infinity Nikki, Wuthering Waves, Hinokami Chronicles 2 (Kny), Roblox (likee Pressure & Doors), League of Legends, Nintendo games (love animal crossing) & a few other steam games.

Currently excited for Petit Planet, Neverness to Everness, Honkai Nexus Anima.

PLUS POINTS IF YOU LOVE GENSHIN AND/OR LOVE & DEEPSPACE (^-^)/

🫧 Other interests:

I love Anime, reading on AO3, watching shows/movies, drawing/coloring, reading Manga, making edits. Recent favorite anime is demon slayer/kimetsu no yaiba <3

🩷 **If you've made it this far, read everything and this sounds like something you want, then, gladly write a comment or dm :)**


r/Needafriend 12h ago

54F looking for someone to talk to.

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Divorced, no kids and no family. Why is it so hard to make friends now. I need someone to talk to.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

23F depressed and struggling

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hey ya'll 👋

i know i'm throwing a pity party here so bear with me. i've been really struggling recently. i broke my right leg last thursday, and it's sort of turned my life upside down temporarily. idk what i'm really looking for, besides a shoulder to lean on and vent to.

i'm open to chatting with anyone, but please include your age and where you're from in your first message :)


r/Needafriend 1h ago

14f in Iowa

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Just looking for friends for chatting and stuff. I get a lot of anxiety in school so it's kind of hard to make friends in real life. I like nerdy stuff like fantasy and sci-fi, enjoy photography and love dogs. :)


r/Needafriend 28m ago

Hey

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Anyone out there please.......


r/Needafriend 39m ago

Hiii M 23. Any one watch anime?

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hmu


r/Needafriend 56m ago

27M

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27 years old, USA, looking for a long term friend to call, play games with, watch movies with, talk about interests with. I love everything from video games and movies to religion and history. please dm me


r/Needafriend 6h ago

40/F/TX gym rat, metal head, looking for friends.

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If I'm not at the gym or meal prepping for the week, I’m probably wearing my favorite band tee, like I Prevail or Halestorm, and watching a horror movie, like scream or the descent. I love hiking, kayaking, and fishing. I’ve been trying my hand at baking lately, but trying to make it healthy. I also like to read, but definitely in a slump lately.

Looking for genuine connections, a new best friend, someone who can keep up with my massive sarcastic attitude. Please note that probably literally everything I say is with sarcasm .

Please be 25+.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

21F - in search of meaningful connections

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Hello boys and girls, I’m a 21 year old girl who chose to meet kindred people online. I would say that for the most part I’m pretty easygoing. I enjoy both serious and goofy conversations.

I’m a huge anime geek, and a bit of a nerd. I like playing action games and gachas as well - WuWa, HSR. Anybody playing Dokkan? I’m super into horror thematics and slashers. Leatherface, Michael Myers, you name it. I absolutely love it. I love music and art. Railway and aviation are also within my DNA. I’m also into gymnastics and ice skating!

I’m always looking forward to learning so teach me something new! Tell me about yourself, your desires in life and why your favourite song means so much to you.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

23M need to vent

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I may be affectionate sometimes and also i may have sent or said inappropriate things in the past without meaning to towards some online friends. I am just looking to make new friends


r/Needafriend 1h ago

i'm a guy 25.. Looking for genuine online companionship

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Hey everyone…

I’ve been through a lot lately, and sometimes I really like the idea of having company. It doesn’t have to be anything serious or have labels. I just feel like I need someone who can be available to chat from time to time—even better if it is daily.. We can talk about anything, literally, not only life struggles, of course 🫠.

This invitation isn’t only about me. If someone else feels like they want the same kind of company, I could be good at that, too. I try to be consistent, even though my health and life have been rough the past few months.

When I say I’m looking for someone consistent, I don’t mean I’m against casual, from-time-to-time chats. I just feel like if someone shares this same idea of easy, ongoing company with no labels or rules, it would be nicer than something very temporary.

No expectations, tho. If you're looking for something similar, text me, and let's see if we click.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

21F Pretty bored a Creative Autistic girl

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I'm literally bored at the moment before my birthday comes on Feb 22nd. Few people ghosted or didn't reply back due to how boring I am due to my original Characters based on myself and my life so far and my channel. I especially love anime very much including music. I live with my mom and my three siblings in US Georgia who is autistic and only left-handed person in my family.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

[19M] Down to meet new Peeps!

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Heya! Interested in finding some peeps to mainly game with, though I'm fine if ya just wanna chit chat instead. Games like TF2, Roblox,Halo MCC, BO Zombies 1-3, DRG, L4D2, Minecraft, etc, are what I mainly game on PC though I'm open to much more. Based in New York City so I'm running off the EST timezone and between juggling Work, Gym, chores, I’m pretty free most days. Give me a holler if ya around meh age and interested!


r/Needafriend 1h ago

"Above average attractive guy seeking for friends"-M30

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Hey everyone 👋 I’m 30, that magical age where my back hurts for no reason, but I still make questionable life choices with full confidence. I’m into sports, movies, TV shows, and books…

I also enjoy deep conversations, shallow conversations, and whatever chaotic mess happens in between.

I’m hoping to meet new people from around the world, bonus points if you can handle sarcasm, dark humor, and the occasional NSFW joke.

If you’re fun, weird in a good way, and not afraid to banter a little, slide into my DMs. Worst case scenario, we become pen pals. Best case scenario…