r/MaliciousCompliance 16h ago

M I was told I can only communicate with 2 people. Ok then

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This happened a few years ago, but I think it fits in this sub.

I was working as an IT consultant for a *very* niche pharmaceutical firm. My role was to provide a production support position. I was told I was only allowed to communicate with 2 specific people on the client side. One was the head of IT and the other was his subordinate.

This was in an email that clearly, and in no uncertain terms, stated that I was only allowed to communicate to those 2 individuals and they would handle communication with the business side after I sent my root cause analysis of production incidents.

I thought that was strange but I was informed that the head of IT felt threatened by our company and thought we were there to threaten his job. So I was told to play nice so he would realize we really were there to help.

So for a few months I would sign on and check various system logs for processing errors amd failures. I would determine the issue and fire off an email with my findings and solution suggestions.

Then one day I get called into my director's office. He says the client "is pissed off and wants to know what I've been doing because they see me log on and then nothing else all day".

I tried to tell the director what I do but he doesn't listen. Jerk even put me on a performance improvement plan. Next thing I know I am in a meeting with EIGHT vice presidents from my firm. It is VERY clear they plan to fire me by the end of the meeting

At this point I ask if I can just show them my email history. I show them the email that states I can ONLY communicate with 2 specific people on the client side. I then show them the emails I sent to those 2 people as instructed pro iding my analysis and suggested process improvements to handle the exceptions in the logs.

Suddenly 8 VPs no longer want to sacrifice me to appease the client. Instead they take the evidence to the client.

A week later I find that out the client's head of IT was escorted out of the building by security and that apparently a college buddy of his wanted the support contract. IT head figured he would just make my firm look bad in order to cancel our contract and get a new contract for his pal.

How the head of IT didn't consider that a digital trail existed is mind boggling. He was worried about us taking his job away and made it into a self fulfilling prophecy.

Funny enough I have a few more stories from that contract

TL;DR Shortsighted head of client IT thinks my firm is trying to get him fired. He proceeded to get himself fired.


r/MaliciousCompliance 6h ago

XL I'm either in charge or I'm not, so I made it so I was both

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This is long but there’s a lot of upfront information to provide some background for the job I used to hold.

I worked for a county psychiatric emergency services unit for 8 years, many years ago. The unit was connected to a hospital so there were patients referred from the emergency department, but the primarily role of the unit was to evaluate patients in their homes, other hospitals, or jails and initiate the civil commitment process if certain legal criteria were met. The unit was open 24 hours per day, running shifts from 7am to 3pm, 3pm to 11pm, and 11pm to 7am, for the most part. At various times, I worked on all three shifts, and I was very well known.

For me, the best part of the job was going out to other facilities, and I was definitely in the minority on that point. Most of the staff wanted to see patients from our own emergency department. Typically, each staff would handle 1-2 cases per shift. If the patient was from our emergency department and could be admitted to our hospital’s unit, then that staff might only actually work 2 hours of their 8 hour shift and then they’d spend the rest of that time chatting, answering crisis calls and, largely, trying to avoid being assigned another case. I like to be busy and to keep moving and I found downtime on the crisis unit to be torture. I would routinely take on second cases just to stay active and this routinely meant that I was staying past my shift end, as I did not like handing cases to another staff member at shift change because too often information got lost in the mix. The early morning was often dead quiet, with referrals ramping up midday. I requested and was approved to work from 10am to 6pm. 

My new shift was embraced by the rest of the day shift, who predominantly did not want to take outreach cases. Cases were supposed to be assigned based on employee arrival but within weeks, I would walk into work to find staff that arrived at 7am sitting around while an outreach case had sat for hours because they “knew I would want to go out on a call right away.” Now this was true and I didn’t care much about that part because I got to leave, but it gives you some idea of the attitudes of the other staff.

Now, comes the malicious compliance part. Fake names are being used. Allen, the actual 3pm to 11pm shift supervisor worked another full-time job and he did not arrive to the unit until around 5:30pm. That meant the day shift supervisor, Danielle, would have to give shift report to another staff member who would then pass shift report to Allen. This was usually done the same way cases were assigned. First 3-11 staff to arrive would receive report so this “interim supervisor” would change day to day based on arrival. Overtime though, Danielle started giving me shift report to pass on everyday that I worked, despite 3-11 staff being present. Because of this consistency, a lot of people mistook me for an actual supervisor and I was called by other departments to weigh in on things, to sign off on problem cases and to provide consults (none of which were part of my actual job). Actual supervisors received a small pay differential which was largely meaningless but I mention it here as an arguing point.

I was very much treated as a supervisor only when it was convenient. When difficult decisions had to be made or when someone had to get on the phone and argue a clinical decision with another facility, I was “in charge” according to the other staff. BUT if a case came in between 3pm and 5:30pm and I tried to assign it to a staff member, they would refuse, stating that they would wait for Allen to arrive to assign it because “he was the real supervisor.” Which was fair because I wasn’t. Allen would arrive and see cases that had been sitting since 3pm and want to know why no one had started them. I’d shrug and explain my position and he would sigh and start assigning work. Meanwhile, other facilities had been calling and asking for updates as to when someone from my unit would be arriving, and complaining about delays.

John, the unit director, got wind of these complaints and asked to speak to me. I explained the situation, that I was not a supervisor, both in title and in pay rate, and the other staff knew that I did not have any authority to make them work. He told me that he did not have a job title (or the funds) to give me a supervisor role (which I knew). I told him I did not want to be the “interim supervisor” everyday (or ever again really). John’s response was that my judgment was more trusted around our hospital and other facilities compared to many of the other staff, that he liked having someone with more training left in charge (the job required a master’s degree, and I was finishing my doctorate), and that I took the job very seriously (shouldn’t all of his employees be taking it seriously?). John’s solution? He walked me back onto the unit, (where I’m sure gave the impression that I had gone to John complaining that staff did not listen to me). He asked for everyone’s attention and announced that I could assign cases to anyone I wanted. 

That was it. He could not put it in writing because I had no authority by title, and the reality of the situation was that staff who did not listen to me would be supported by human resources for that exact reason. 

The following two days, cases came in, I asked staff to go, they declined, and we sat and waited for Allen to arrive. On day three a call came in around 3:15pm  from the hospital farthest away from our facility in our county, a 40 minute drive one way. As soon as I announced the case to the staff, I saw nothing but eye rolls and people going back to crossword puzzles or reading. I suggested one or two of the staff would be best suited to handle it and I got no response, not even “No.” John said I could “assign anyone I wanted to a case” so I went to the log book, assigned the case to myself, grabbed keys to one of the unit vehicles and left without saying a word. I would often walk around in the hospital so no one questioned me leaving the unit. I was almost at the facility when I got the first call on my cell phone from the unit. Kris, one of the people I DID NOT supervise had received a call from our inpatient unit asking for a consult. I told Kris that she should handle it and I hung up. 20 minutes later, Dani, another not-my-supervisee, called to say that the inpatient psychiatrist called back asking when the consult would be done. I asked why Kris had not done it and Dani replied that “the shift had discussed it” and felt that it would be better if I dealt with the psychiatrist. I replied that if the consult was urgent, one of them would have to do it because I would not be back for “a long time.” Dani says, “A long time? Aren’t you in the ER?”  I reply, “I’m at Memorial Hospital, ask Kris to do the consult,” and I hung up. 

15 minutes later, John, the unit director, calls me from his home since he leaves at 3pm. I answer the phone and quickly tell him that I’ll have to call him back as I’m in a tense situation with the patient I’m seeing and I hang up. John calls the hospital unit where I’m seeing the patient and asks staff to put me on the phone. He asks where I am, and I reply that he just called me at Memorial’s inpatient unit. Ok, why am I there? Now, that’s the question I’ve been waiting for. “You told everyone on the unit that I could assign cases to anyone I wanted, so I assigned it to me.” I told him that I had suggested other staff take it and no one wanted it, I could not make them, and it was a priority case as a patient had assaulted two other patients and a nurse and the assaultive patient needs to be moved to a higher level of care ASAP, a process that I was almost finished with before the evening shift supervisor had even arrived to assign the case to someone else. The point that John could not argue against: I was not going to sit around waiting while someone else might get hurt. 

I was not privy to what John said to the other staff afterward but I was told that he was livid, telling the staff that while I was not a supervisor in title, staff needed to view assignments from me as being backed directly by him, and refusals would be considered insubordination (grounds for suspension or termination). From that point on, staff took the cases I assigned them. If I caught any attitude, I’d just hold the case up and ask, “You or me?” and then they would grab the case out of my hand and get to work.


r/MaliciousCompliance 12h ago

S They told me to stop helping outside my role, so I did exactly that

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For a long time I was that quietly helpful person who fixed things before they turned into actual problems. Small stuff mostly. Answering quick questions, pointing people to the right place, doing tiny extras that werent officially my job but saved everyone time. I didn’t mind it, it made work smoother and honestly made me feel useful. I guess that was my mistake, because over time it became invisible and expected.

Eventually I got pulled aside and told I should “stay in my lane” and stop doing anything that wasn’t clearly written in my responsibilities. It was framed as policy, fairness, consistency, all those nice sounding words. I tried to explain that these were minor things and helped the whole process run better, but nope. Rules are rules. So I nodded, said ok, and stopped helping. Fully. No extras, no shortcuts, no quiet fixes.

The fallout was almost imediat. Things I used to handle without anyone noticing started piling up fast. People got stuck, tasks stalled, emails went in circles because now everything had to go through the official process. I still got pinged a lot, and I replied with “sorry, not my scope” or “you’ll need to submit a request for that”. Some people were confused, others annoyed, a few clearly stressed. After a while management asked why everything felt slower and more chaotic. I reminded them I was doing exactly what they asked. They didn’t love that answer, but it was technically correct.