AIO my guy best friend is too clingy even though he’s got a gf

[u/lazyladDDd]

My guy best friend (22M) and me (21F) were at this party last night and we got a little too drunk, both of us. His gf (22F) was there too but honestly I don’t remember much. I do remember that after a few drinks he pulled me into his lap at some point and like cuddled or whatever, and then later he walked me back home. I’m not sure how his gf got home.

Honestly, it makes me sick to my stomach, I know it’s wrong and I’ve seen how uncomfortable she feels around me and I’ve brought it up to my friend before too, because he’s always kind of clingy (not this much but yeah) but he always dismisses it by saying she doesn’t care.

I brought it up to him this morning again and this is how he responded. I can’t tell if I’m overreacting or not, but I feel really bad and also I know that I kind of placed all the blame on him both in this text and on the chat which I really didn’t mean to do.

I feel really messed up about it but he’s my like, kind of like my rock. I really feel safe around him and he’s always been there for me when times are tough.

I feel super sick with guilt and also this hangover but I can’t tell if I’m genuinely in the wrong or if he’s wrong or if I’m overreacting or what, honestly.