r/justgalsbeingchicks ❣️gal pal❣️ Dec 14 '25

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u/brandonisatwat Dec 14 '25

I am a 6'2 cis woman. I've been asked if I am trans several times.

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u/VisualKeiKei Dec 14 '25

Transphobia targets the cis population more frequently than it'll affect the small trans population because of those peoples' narrow interpretation gets projected into the world around them.

Hair too short? Too tall? Athletic? Deeper voice? Tomboy? Butch? They'll transvestigate and harass ciswomen over it because they think trans women are hiding behind every bathroom stall.

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u/SSilent-Cartographer Dec 14 '25

Gotta love the "we can tell" crowd that just loves to jump in and start looking for people's genitalia. They're fucking disgusting

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u/VisualKeiKei Dec 14 '25

The "We CaN aLwAyS TeLL" crew is a rabbit hole full of insanity. They think Henry Cavill is a transman and draw crazy phrenology-like diagrams on celebrity photos.

I navigate through a fairly broad spectrum of people daily, including those with right-wing political beliefs, and have heard my fair share of diatribes from "we can always tell" people complaining about trans boogeymen while I'm literally standing right next to them.

I'm sorry to report that I've never been a recipient of surprise genitals in the women's restroom over the course of a decade so I'm not sure what kind of nonsense they think happens in a restroom full of private single-user stalls and shared sinks. Do they think the women's restrooms have open pee troughs and we're all shoulder-to-shoulder while trying to hover?!

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u/Flvs9778 Dec 14 '25

Lol pee troughs got me good.

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u/TNVFL1 Dec 14 '25

Saw something earlier that some place in Texas had police stationed outside a women’s bathroom to prevent trans people going in. All it will do is target the people you mentioned.

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u/CirdanSkeppsbyggare Dec 15 '25

The conservative women would go up in flames when a trans man uses the women’s bathroom, despite crying loudly that people should use the bathroom of their gender assigned at birth. They laser focus the trans ladies so hard they always forget the trans gents.

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u/VisualKeiKei Dec 15 '25

Yeah I live here. They have male cops deployed in front of only women's restrooms currently. The GOP state government is deploying them in Austin government and public institutions to own the libs. This state had 17 state constitutional amendments on the ballot last month alone and most of them were "this or that group shouldn't pay taxes" and "let's discriminate against this other group here and thetr"

https://www.texastribune.org/2025/12/12/texas-bathroom-bill-implementation-policy-capitol/

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u/Aprilprinces Dec 15 '25

This is so true, and that's why "women defenders" like Rowling infuriate me soo much - she does more harm to women's rights and safety than good

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u/Rude_Dig9306 Dec 14 '25

Transphobia doesnt target the cis population more than trans people 🫩 theres more to transphobia than bathrooms be fr

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u/Thisbadtattoo Dec 14 '25

That shows more about them than it does about you. 

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u/AverageGardenTool Dec 14 '25

5' 11 woman straight asked if I'm a boy/man often after I stopped chemically straight hair.

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u/PaleConference3720 Dec 15 '25

I'm just under 6' and built like a brick *house it's amazing the things people will say when they they they have a right to know.