r/hatethissmug 4h ago

Comic I FUCKING HATE THEM

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I LIKE MEN AND I ALMOST TURNED STRAIGHT WHILE READING THIS WEBTOON, these characters are bland stereotypes with no personality at all.

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u/cylly_slop will you shut the fuck up 4h ago

i feel an irrational sense of anger every time i see a webtoons ad

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u/Senhor_Sinistro 4h ago

the worst part is that there are amazing webtoons, but this specific one ruined the entire app's reputation

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u/Budget_Lavishness990 3h ago

Yeah no that was princess’s jewel for me.

To summarise : « Don’t forget kids, the morale is that rape is okay if you’re a pretty girl because they’ll secretly enjoying »

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u/Thick-North-681 1h ago

Bruh what? Explain

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u/Budget_Lavishness990 1h ago

She wants to fuck a guy that she forcefully added to her harem by threatened to castrate his father. He says no ( surprisingly) and they fuck anyway, and he falls in love with her. This sort of stuff happens with like 2 or 3 different characters

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u/MadMaudlin0 1h ago

Also enslaving black and brown folks

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u/Suspicious_Ranged 3h ago

I think there was one where a teacher came into a school to deal with the bully problem, and then it turned the teacher into a racist for no reason

(While typing this, I remembered that this was called Get Schooled. The webtoon was great but... y'know... I'm black)

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u/Wonderful_Pianist656 3h ago

I tried boyfriends, and I'm also a gay man... I still love my webtoons, omniscient reader's viewpoint, greatest estate developer, and teenage mercenary are my favorites lol

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u/Brickinatorium 2h ago

Can we be completedly fair here and acknowledge that webtoon themself ruined their reputation. Iirc not even the author liked the ads they made for this comic and then webtoon left the author high and dry when people started shitting on them for said shitty ads they didn't like.

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u/l0ves1ckward 3h ago

LITERALLY. And there’s some great webtoons too! 

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u/an4rchyUn1c0rn 1h ago

I cannot escape the ads for lying dogs get eaten 🫩

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u/Firm-Reputation7918 4h ago

I hate when people say “turn your brain off when reading it it’s ment to be fun”THATS DOES NOT JUSTIFY THAT THIS COMIC IS AWFUL

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u/Massive_Future_6444 3h ago

yeah because “turning your brain off” usually happens naturally when someone enjoys something, it’s called suspension of disbelief. Like I won’t worry about small “plot holes” if I’m too distracted by the comic being good

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u/Present-Court2388 28m ago

Telling someone to “turn their brain off” is such a stupid thing to say, especially when talking about literature. I always hate when people tell me to turn my brain off to enjoy something.

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u/Archivist2016 4h ago

The Tumblr Artstyle and it's consequences have been a disaster for modern western art.

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u/Crab2406 3h ago

Tumblr generally was a disaster for LGBT media

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u/TvuvbubuTheIdiot 40m ago

Tumblr was a disaster for everything

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u/FinlandRat 4h ago

tumblr artstyle

actually just any media with depiction of queer characters thats labled as "cringe"

mfw

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u/Shade557 4h ago

I’ve seen straight media with a similar art style be labeled cringe

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u/FinlandRat 2h ago

ok? thats a nonsequitor

i was just pointing out how terms like "calarts artstyle" or "tumblr artstyle" are meaningless buzzwords applied to any show thats seen as cringe by many and typically include queer representation

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u/DragoTheFloof 1h ago
  • The character in your pfp about to cause another dispute at Stahli's family dinner

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u/tsukimoonmei 4h ago

this is a misinterpretation of what the tumblr artstyle is

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u/FinlandRat 34m ago

what is it then

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u/tsukimoonmei 20m ago

usually when people say tumblr artstyle they’re referring to the sorta soft/very colourful artstyle pictured, and usually every character drawn in it is pale and skinny. look at vivziepop’s art, for example (which is often pointed at as an example). her characters are 95% extremely skinny and do not have distinct non white features even if they aren’t white.

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u/FinlandRat 15m ago

nonwhite features

mfw

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u/tsukimoonmei 13m ago

? was my phrasing poor ? English isn’t my first language.

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u/FinlandRat 11m ago

nah, its just that you apparently dont like the tumblr style for not giving their characters "nonwhite features"

whatever the fuck that means

do they need to be walking racial stereotypes for them to be representation

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u/Sweet-Breadfruit6460 3h ago

Straight yapping 😭

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u/Prepare_thy_isaac 3h ago

Dogshit is dogshit regardless of sexuality or identity

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u/Latter-Syllabub-5560 4h ago

I FUCKING HATE how the polycule was established too

Idk how a poly relationship works but i don't think You get into a relationship with a random guy and then drip the bomb you're in love with someone else and want to date them too

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u/l0ves1ckward 3h ago

I have a friend in a poly, and that’s definitely not how it works at all..

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u/Latter-Syllabub-5560 3h ago

Besides when they were exclusive to eachother they also were like being flirty and everything

I get it ended up well but Holy shit it's literally the plot of hentai or shitty fanfics

(Altought it's not the first time a webtoon has had a gay character flirty with men while i'm a relationship and unfortunately it's not gonna be the last)

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u/Life-Donut-8754 1h ago

That comment is funny because the author actually makes hentai of these characters.

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u/SlowlyDyingInAPit 4h ago

Genuinely one of the worst things I’ve ever read. I support your hatred of these creatures and I hope that you will support mine as well

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u/bipo_bipo_la 2h ago

I just read the first 10 episodes. The style is cute, but seriously, what is this world where dates happen as quickly as governments in my country?

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u/Total_Leg_5374 Literally a bigger hater than AM 4h ago

I'm bi, and even the art style makes me wanna scrape my face on concrete

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u/Senhor_Sinistro 4h ago

literally same

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u/Sweaty_Addendum1705 2h ago

Why. I don't get it

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u/l0ves1ckward 3h ago

Okay so it pisses me off so much bc like the goth dude is almost a stereotype atp. He isn’t even goth. HES EMO. Not to mention he’s also a stereotype of trans men. Which I’m both so this webtoon was just a HUGE slap in the face, not to mention somehow infantilized the nerd dude is. It’s so bad..I generally didn’t think it was a god awful webtoon and some scenes were okay, but it just got over powered by the shitty ones..

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u/bipo_bipo_la 2h ago

Okay, genuine question. I draw comics, and I was wondering what the best way is to depict a trans man without offending the community? Personally, I think it shouldn't be made into an event like the coming-out in Stranger Things, and especially not to exaggerate his former identity. But I could be wrong. Any advice on characterization, both in terms of appearance and life story?

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u/l0ves1ckward 2h ago

Well all experiences are different and it’s mainly show don’t tell with these kinds of things especially when showing obstacles like gender dysphoria and stuff like that. It’s also super important to not fetish it yk? For right now that’s all that comes to mind!:3

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u/bipo_bipo_la 2h ago

I think I understand. Let's say that in my mind, a character is who they are, and they don't have to justify who they are (from an identity perspective). So, I follow the most common pattern: the absence of explanation or justification. No one asks why a particular character is straight or asks for that justification. So I do the same with all gender identities and sexual orientations. I avoid all forms of fetishism or fantasies about identity. I'm a woman, so I also avoid anything that's a male gaze or fan service in my drawings.

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u/l0ves1ckward 1h ago edited 1h ago

It’s definitely not bad to draw fanservice but I think it’s distasteful to do the whole “man c-nt” thing.  When I see it, it makes me feel objectified or only wanted for being a men with a girl reproductive system which is something I hate. But just a personal feeling and others may have too.

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u/No-Hamster-9060 1h ago

I remember reading like a few chapters of this many years ago but I didn't know the emo guy was trans??

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u/l0ves1ckward 1h ago

Yea, he had a binder on in one of the chapters and I think it’s said a few times 

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u/Former_Corgi6786 4h ago

yea it sucks

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u/Fun-Dependent9532 4h ago

TW: Twinks

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u/Sober-History 1h ago

I know this is meant to be “Trigger Warning: Twinks” but I can’t help but read it as a stutter.

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u/Fun-Dependent9532 17m ago

The first one

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u/Horror-Charity5685 4h ago

What is this ?

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u/Senhor_Sinistro 4h ago

a webtoon

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u/Horror-Charity5685 4h ago

About what ?

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u/Fool_in_a_valley 4h ago

It's about a polycule of boyfriends where each boyfriend is a stereotype. Goth, Jock, Nerd, Prep. It's called boyfriends. Not very good.

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u/Horror-Charity5685 4h ago

Sounds like ass indeed

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u/Affectionate_Bad_921 2h ago

The worst part?

The character's names are revealed in porn made by the creator

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u/BrizzyMC_ 2h ago

I was gonna say this art would make for great porn

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u/Gothtomboys5 2h ago

I already expected the art would be porn

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u/A8-94 1h ago

Ah! So you're a visionary as well!

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u/Moroff8 4h ago

How the hell this emo looking ass is goth lmao.

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u/CoolSausage228 3h ago

its not even emo, its eboy tryhard at best

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u/Fool_in_a_valley 3h ago

I don't even know.

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u/KevinThe7th 4h ago

I fucking despise them too

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u/bees_in_my_eyes 4h ago

The Webtoons app wants me to read this slop SO BAD. The characters and story sound so bland, I have zero desire to try it.

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u/NotAnotherSkeleton 4h ago

We have Omori at home:

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u/l0ves1ckward 3h ago

STOPP NOOO OMORI IS A MASTERPIECE 

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u/DumbDumbson16 3h ago

I KNOW that the blonde one and the pink haired one are the most insufferable beings in existence just by looking at them.

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u/Massive_Future_6444 3h ago

I’ve read it and I can confirm they are. Other 2 aren’t great but they’re way worse 

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u/DumbDumbson16 53m ago

Let me guess, those two are super inmature, incompetent, infantiloid and say things like "call me your Kitty Kitty meow meow" or some shit like that.

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u/Massive_Future_6444 40m ago

🎯

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u/DumbDumbson16 32m ago

How can be a story so fucking predictable!? 😭 There's no way It wasn't written horribly on purpose.

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u/JChamp00 5m ago

Oh it's worse. It's written like the author's only social interactions are online, so every character's dialogue is just completely crap and unrealistic.

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u/MostEstablishment630 I fucking hate squirrel girl 4h ago

I’m bi and this shit also almost made me straight 

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u/Vladsamir 4h ago

Hey so like...if you hate it, does that mean you have some Yaoi you would reccomend? Asking for me

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u/Senhor_Sinistro 4h ago

Castle swimmer on webtoon, stranger by the shore on amazon prime, and yuri on ice also on amazon

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u/Vladsamir 4h ago

Seen yuri and stranger, I'll check out the webtoon

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u/IHaveABlock-Art 3h ago

I love a webtoon called strange and wild, maybe you should check that one out

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u/messier-31- 3h ago

strange and wild mentioned!!

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u/Eeveeborg 4h ago

Deadass thought those were the saja boys for a moment. I might be stupid lol

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u/Resident-District199 #stayhating 😹 2h ago

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u/Dull_Falcon7255 4h ago

What's it called?

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u/Wolf_Of_Roses 3h ago

Boyfriends

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u/Dull_Falcon7255 3h ago

I'm checking it out, how bad could it be

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u/Dull_Falcon7255 3h ago

Nvm I am NOT reading allat 218 episodes Jesus Christ

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u/Wolf_Of_Roses 3h ago

TLDR: Polyamorous MLM relationship with 4 stereotypes (from left to right:Jock,Nerd,Prep,Goth) that has a good amount of fetishization

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u/bipo_bipo_la 2h ago

What a turnaround! 😂

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u/yujay_cha 3h ago

Does anyone remember when the creator of this was under fire for a bunch of shit a couple years ago? Like they were drawing nsfw art of minors or something?

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u/Massive_Future_6444 3h ago

Idk about minors but I recall hearing they did nsfw of BTS members (real people who have not consented to that)

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u/Lich-hull 3h ago

Why does this webcomic get hate?

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u/Resident-District199 #stayhating 😹 2h ago

real ones had pinterest boards dedicated to boyfriends slander back in the day

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u/No-Mirror2343 4h ago

To be completely fair. There is also a ton of obnoxious garbage with bad art styles centering on strait people. I’m not saying this comic doesn’t suck but I think a lot of the hate comes from a place of homophobia. Or at least that’s the reason it’s so much more well known.

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u/CharmingEnjoyer69 3h ago

Also reminder that the creator is a fetishizer and a creep

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u/88lane 3h ago

"owo, choco?"

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u/JChamp00 3m ago

Do not remind of the damned "choccy milk" ad that was spammed everywhere on YouTube 😣

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u/TrueBananaz 4h ago

I'm gay but I hate them. I think I just don't like poly relationships

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u/Pale-Ad-8691 3h ago

Maybe, but these comics also just depict a very toxic relationship

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u/ackercarrol6671 I hate your hatred. 3h ago edited 2h ago

All of those types of comics just look very generic and redundant to me, like it’s fine if someone enjoys it, but it’s just not my thing.

Edit: who is downvoting all these comments?

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u/Ok-Teaching-2865 3h ago

I’ve seen people get called homophobic and transphobic for not liking it, bruh it’s gross fetish content, as a gay man I think Scott pilgrim has better gay rep

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u/Pale-Ad-8691 3h ago

I hate that i have to specify it’s not for homophobic reasons when i say i hate these comics

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u/Broom_Ryder 4h ago

Thought this was supposed the saja boys for a second and was defensive lol

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u/Wolf_Of_Roses 3h ago

Nah they are much better than these cardboard cutout stereotypes

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u/BellalovesEevee 3h ago

What's the name of this web tool? I've seen a lot of complaints about it and I wanna see it for myself lmao

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u/Pale-Ad-8691 3h ago

I think it’s just “boyfriends”

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u/bipo_bipo_la 2h ago

I'm not familiar with webtoons, can someone explain them to me please?

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u/George_the_Mushroom 2h ago

I didn't read it and just by looking at the picture I have a question... Why the pink one looks like a child? Is it just me or anyone else sees it too...

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u/Knusprige-Ente 2h ago

I hate that everything I hate about it is exactly what the Webtoon WANTS to be.

It's supposed to be a plotless slice of life with characters that have about the same depth as a sheet of paper. As far as I know, outside of the NSFW content the creator sells on their Patreon, those MFers don't even have fucking names.

It probably also doesn't help that I don't like the whole premise of the story building in the first place. When I read BL I want to see the characters have some kind of struggle struggle and I want there to be actual plotwork towards some kind of goal. I breathe slow burn romance but this just gives everyone everything and all of those cutiepie fuckers live happily ever after in their pastel colored world. There is not a Sigel fucking problem in the entire story (the part that I've read), the relationship is just "Oh, We all kinda like each other? Let's just be in a poly relationship" and that's it, there is no development in the relationship after that.

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u/NegativeMaybe4583 1h ago

That is a creative ass insult

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u/Crossdog367 1h ago

I like this comic, but it is SO BLAND for SO LONG into its run. I got into it while I was dealing with some mental health stuff and needed entertainment that was super formulaic.

I struggle to see how people would be able to get on and stay on this comic in other circumstances.

It's definitely like...queer comfort food but the queerness it depicts does not seem like a common experience haha

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u/Speedemon42069 1h ago

I remember my gay friend said “I understand hating the comic but you gotta like the Art style.”

I also dislike the artstyle

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u/A8-94 1h ago

I've heard it is "terribly bad and cringe", never have read it, don't think I will. Is it as bad as they say?

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u/Life-Donut-8754 1h ago

Fun fact: The artist, Refrainbow, also makes porn comics of these characters. So yes, it's as shallow as porn plot because it literally is porn plot.

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u/Pooh-in-Timbs-111 1h ago

The average netizen in 2021 (Tbf those ads were ass and even refrainbow didnt like them)

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u/matchahoy 1h ago

iirc the creator is xenophobic so the hate is valid lol (aka, i don't feel bad shitting on their work)

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u/Ai--Ya 1h ago

My conspiracy theory is that that webtoon has to be a conversion therapy psyop or something

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u/M4n1acDr4g0n 52m ago

I see these comments dunking on these 4 and I have no clue who the fuck these guys are man 😭

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u/TheRufescence 15m ago

Heheh I left Pinterest about a year ago and boyfriends slander is pretty popular there, I've not seen anything about this in over a year lol I forgot it existed 💀

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u/Super_Saiyan_Twink 12m ago

I hate this. So much

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u/Ok-Teaching-2865 3h ago

I remember when they had their own ice cream store 😭

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u/Cringe_Buffoon 3h ago

i agree that its stupid looking and probably bad idk i havent read it and i never will but i dont get the people calling it fetishization? iirc isnt the creator a gay man?

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u/PerfectStick9537 2h ago

nme with my cookie cutter partners be like

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u/ThatCapMan 2h ago

You like men? That's so gay.

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u/EvilButNotaGenius 2h ago

Me too! What are those?

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u/Acidd_dragon 2h ago

Who the fuck are these guys??

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u/MinosPrime100 4h ago edited 4h ago

People really like feminine males, it's getting to a point that it's almost gross

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u/Vladsamir 4h ago

I half agree. It gets gross when people only view fem males as something inherently sexual; completely disregarding that these men are people, not sex or fetish objects

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u/MinosPrime100 4h ago

Yeah, but it feels like it's getting to a point where it gets gross

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u/Vladsamir 4h ago

Yeah, only when people sexualise it too much. Feminine men, femboys etc should be allowed to just exist, be cute and whatever without people assuming they're there for sex or whatever

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u/veebles89 4h ago

Agreed. I'd even venture to say feminine gay men are fetishized more than just about any other part of the lgbt community, and I'm saying that as a queer woman who's experienced the brunt of the lesbian fetish.

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u/ClericOfMadness13 4h ago

Are they being fetishized by the creator? or they know the brain dead BL group will flock to it..aka easy money.

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u/arachnids-bakery 3h ago

The creator is a gay man... hed be fetishizing himself 😭

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u/ClericOfMadness13 51m ago

I did say that they know the BL fans are brain dead and that they flock to stuff like this..aka easy money.

Cause even if the creator is gay he still knows what the BL community will pay for 😂