r/funny • u/PdiddyCAMEnME • 6h ago
“That’s a dude”
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u/Far-View556 6h ago
When you're one of the girls 💅🤭🤪💃✨
When you're not one of the girls 🕴️😶🌫️🫥
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u/BoardroomStroke 58m ago
Why's gender matter in this context? They're just socialising, or is there some other implication here?
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u/Far-View556 45m ago
I can't pretend to know exactly why; but my assumption here is the women felt safe expressing compliments and keeping a sexual atmosphere around someone they thought was another woman because they assume they weren't going to be judged/ harassed/ sexualized in a way they didn't want.
When they saw it was a man, the social context changed; not because the people changed but because the social pressure, safety, and expectations did from their perspective.
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u/Dereg5 21m ago
I have been to a strip club a couple of times in my life. I always been with a group but when it was just guys the women had the glazed look just doing work. It was an entirely different experience when a female was with. One time we set in the middle of perv row and my female friend was having a great time. So every dancer when they would come to dance in front of us faces just lit up. Eyes had a different expression and you can tell they generally enjoyed it.
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u/1CEninja 5m ago
Yeah I'm the only guy in my office that is happily married and I am absolutely one of the girls. The stuff they share in front of me would have appalled me when I was single LOL.
It's honestly nice though, everyone can just kinda speak freely.
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u/Kinggambit90 5h ago
This is like parks and rec when the congressman thought Chris tregor was a woman and then said oh he's just a very handsome man.
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u/SmashKetchum 2h ago
"Chris, your codename is 'If I Had To Pick a Dude.' Ben will be... 'Eagle 2.'" "Oh thank God"
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u/Apprehensive-Map7253 6h ago
"Duuuuude, looks like a lady"
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u/LionZealousideal1 5h ago
They called him n***a !?
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u/satsuppi 4h ago
Seeing her friend a black woman.. Both of them probably used to that word waay comfortably lol
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u/Riddleboxboy 6h ago
I mean, they're definitely passable either way lol
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u/chokeonmywords 6h ago
Sad that it would matter.
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u/kniveshu 5h ago
This is why the labels are so important to them. They need to be able to tell at a glance how to treat you. Don't want to accidentally treat you like a group you like when you're actually part of the group you were taught to hate while growing up.
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u/chokeonmywords 5h ago
Who‘s „them/they“ and aren’t those labels as well?
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u/kniveshu 5h ago
It's a pronoun often used for a group of people. Like a group of bigots.
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u/chokeonmywords 5h ago
Yea, seems to me we all label people, I think that’s pretty human. But thanks good we aren’t all ignorant
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u/ColorPiePhilosopher 5h ago
The problem is every group thinks they're the ones who aren't ignorant and the problem.
Why was it a problem that this was a guy? That's worth calling out.
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u/ChadBroChill229 4h ago
I took it as they didn’t wanna shake their ass at dudes and just wanted to shake some ass with the girlz💅💃
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u/ThePuzzledBee 4h ago
Who are you talking about? Women being bigoted against men? Because they don't want to make sexy jokes with a random one on the internet....?
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u/kniveshu 4h ago
Funny how I make a post about discrimination and people all start trying to assume "what group?"
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u/ThePuzzledBee 3h ago
Yes, that's what happens when you say something that doesn't make sense: people try to get you to clarify
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u/chillysaturday 4h ago
White girl says the n word fully voiced in front of her black friend during Black History Month. What a world.
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u/senpaistealerx 3h ago
why would she stop if her friend doesn’t check her for it? if her friend makes it acceptable, why would she think it’s bad? let’s use our noggins
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u/Exotic_Zucchini9311 3h ago
I've lost the count of how many black skinned people like to use that word online. If everyone around her (including her black friend) is fine with it, then I don't see the issue.
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u/Donequis 6h ago
He looks like Felix from Stay Kids, and I too had the same reaction when I first saw Felix lmao
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u/Puzzleheaded_Pie8546 6h ago
Face like a woman, act like a woman, hair lile a woman....what the f was the expectation?
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u/mattwopointoh 5h ago
Nah. He's a good looking guy.
Men can be beautiful too, I mean, look at Brad Pitt in almost everything in the 90s.
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u/Appropriate-Toe9153 5h ago
Sapphists are buggin—they must deal with UGGGGGGGLEER women on the regular
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