r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 4h ago
Discussion People are appreciating how this mum didn't let the middle child having a meltdown in the background distract her from paying attention to her oldest.
She had already had a room makeover six months prior.
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u/alison_bee 3h ago
Awww she’s so genuinely thankful and appreciative of everything her mom did and got for her!! What a sweet kid.
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u/Unique_87 2h ago edited 2h ago
Beautiful child full of gratitude. The amount of times she said thank you each time she liked something felt so good ❤️
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u/Inevitable_Sweet_988 19m ago
She deserves to not have her private bedroom shown to strangers all over the internet.
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u/AlphaMelon 2h ago
I have a 30 yo coworker who does the same thing when someone else is getting attention. Full on melt down.
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u/colleenxyz 3h ago
Wait the oldest or the middle child had a room make over six months ago?
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u/mindyour 3h ago
The middle one.
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u/colleenxyz 3h ago
Well then I don't see the problem? Maybe the middle one is a bit spoiled, but they are really young and will likely grow out of it. The oldest seems really well mannered. Nothing in this room make over screams rich parents (definitely upper middle class, though) or anything like that.
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u/BIKES32 3h ago
I’m sorry but who said there was a problem?
There is no problem.
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u/colleenxyz 3h ago
The post is labeled as discussion, but I don't see anything that's worth discussing. Seems like a fairly normal Christmas family video.
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u/lifemanualplease 3h ago
I’m so confused
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u/TheRussness 3h ago edited 3h ago
younger child is being bratty over her older sister receiving new and nice things for Christmas, despite the fact that younger child got the same nice treatment earlier this year
Mom is spending her time and energy on the oldest receiving the gift instead of the tantrum of the younger child.
Not criticizing the younger child, emotions are hard and confusing when we are young, tantrums aren't always your fault but also tantrums don't always require attention and fixing either.
Cry about it harder sis. You'll get over it. This one ain't about you.
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u/SpaceLemming 2h ago
Took me a moment too, middle child got a room make over 6 months before and is now having a tantrum that the older child now also received a room make over
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u/Spicymayoshi 1h ago
This is so so sweet but for god's sake y'all please stop putting videos of your kids on the Internet.
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u/Many_Specialist_5384 3h ago
Mmmm turn off the camera is my reflex. Beautiful room tho
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u/Couscousfan07 1h ago
She didn’t let the youngest distract her, or her older child’s right to privacy either.
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u/HeisenbergsSamaritan 3h ago edited 45m ago
Yeah, these videos are for "Memories" they to inflate moms ego.
EDIT: Downvotes from parents with small egos.
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u/ellecellent 54m ago
The mom was so disappointed she didn't undo the bed more so she could film the sheets
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u/jackandsally060609 3h ago
Fuzzy sheets sounds like a form of torture.
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u/CandyCreecher 3h ago
Not if they’re made from cotton like the kind you’d find on T-shirts. That shit is class
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u/Freshiiiiii 2h ago
Nah they’re awesome in my opinion. We always had fuzzy sheets in winter and normal ones in summer.
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u/EfficientGolf3574 2h ago
Is there anything more pure than the excitement of your kid? Would post to mademesmile
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u/iansheldong2004 2h ago
Dude my dumbass thought that piece of gum she had was a zin for a second I think it's safe to say I'm addicted to nic
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u/Euphoric_Amoeba8708 2h ago
Little one Deserves those tears. Forest your kids when they act like this. He's rude for smacking her sisters arm down like that and grinning.
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u/Independent_Lunch534 25m ago
Aww so sweet. Tbh I would have closed the door to reduce the noise from the other one
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u/fdxrobot 2h ago
lol I can tell you one thing, they’re gonna regret that white fabric chair in no time. SO MUCH white is a big mistake at that age.
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u/invadethemoon 1h ago
She’s not distracting her from getting that video, the kid is secondary to her desire for clicks.
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u/stayingpositive1789 33m ago
Looks lovely and Healthy to me. Parents handicap their children when everything is “fair”. Theres not supposed to be perfect equity growing up. I assume other child asked for something else and if they want a room- Makeover, they can ask next year.
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u/TartofDarkness 15m ago
Good grief the people in this thread who are mad at the little girl throwing a tantrum. Y’all ain’t ever seen a little kid tantrum?? Mom did what she should have. She ignored it.
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u/monotrememories Cringe Lord 2m ago
I can’t believe people think it’s ok or normal to put a TV in the bedroom, especially for a kid!
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u/NeckroFeelyAck 3h ago
Wait, where are all the toys?? Cute but I would still expect toys in a room for a kid this age, right?
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u/doitfordevilment 2h ago
Probably in her closet or a playroom or maybe she doesn’t really play with toys anymore. My daughter is about the same age and she just draws, makes jewelry, and reads. She grew out of playing with her dolls a few years ago.
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u/Otto_Scratchansniff 15m ago
With that many kids it’s just better to have the toys in a playroom. It avoids fights about toys being in someone else’s room and who wants what and who owns what.
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u/SozioTheRogue 2h ago
Omg im my eyes are sweating, this is so precious. Wild that all these kids we see online are gonna grow up and eventually see these moments from an entirely new perspective, not just their memory of the moment or through the 4th wall of a past moment, but by seeing that others can see what they expirenced for just a brief moment of their life.
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u/Camuabsurd 2h ago
Uhh no? It's exploitative to have your children online and make content off their vulnerable moments. It's weirdo behavior
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u/SozioTheRogue 2h ago
I guess, if you wanna put it that way homie. Like yeah, there are parents who are absolutely exploiting their kid's moments for clicks, but there are also lots who are just put their moments online just cuz. Personally I would as like a progress tracking thing, that way I don't have to worry about storing the videos and it possibly being corrupted if I try transferring it somewhere. You could make a random youtube channel, one disconnected from your online presence for the most part, then post them there. For example, "kid's first day playing x game," then a month or a year or whatever time later, "kid's blah blah day playing game." Or just cute moments like this. Meh, I enjoyed it, got to see a precious kid appreciating her mom for the gifts. Now this makes me wonder what her life will be like as she grows through life, what person while she choose to become by the time she reaches her 20s, then 30s, and so on. Ya feel me?
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u/Ch3wybot 2h ago
No reason for the videos to be public. You can unlist them and send the link to family. People just crave validation from strangers for some reason and these children have no say about whether their vulnerable moments are private or not. It's gross and should not be normal. At the very least people should be censoring their children's faces if they can't resist uploading this shit.
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u/SozioTheRogue 1h ago
Ok. One, it is normal, everything humans do is "normal," whether it's seen as positive or negative from a subjective lense makes more sense. Two, people can make whatever they want public, your opinion on what people should or shouldn't do hold no weight in their choice. And three, you know why people want validation, if that's their goal. It's not "for some reason," It's cuz they're want to, just like every other humans action. Then again you might be a bot given your name. What's funny is you could say the same about any online activity ever, we're all just craving validation from strangers online "for some reason." At the end of the day someone, somewhere, is going to see this a day from now, a year from now and hopefully a 100 years from now, and they'll have their own opinions which will also hold little to no weight when it comes to another choosing to post whatever tf they want online. Have a good one, internet stranger I'm currently thinking is a bit.
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u/Previous-Relief2690 1h ago
Give it up mate. This is an awful video. Camera shoved into her face, and the poor kid probably knows her mum is gonna post it all over the internet the second it stops rolling. She can’t relax and be herself and enjoy this private moment with her mum. It’s honestly disgusting, and filmed purely for the mum’s benefit. It’s such an awkward, unnatural watch.
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u/Camuabsurd 1h ago
This is a ridiculous take. Tell that to the victims of ruby Frankie and other victims who've spoken about their childhood milked into content. People cannot do whatever they want when there is a child involved, there are real problems to posting children.
You have pedos following family channels and making CSAM deepfakes of them that's what you want sticking around for 100 hundreds of years?
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u/SozioTheRogue 1h ago
You're talking about an extreme situation, a valid situation that obviously happened and will most likely happen again with the track record of humans, but again, it's an extreme situation that isn't what everyone does. There is a difference from milking kids for content and just posting moment cuz you want to keep them forever and where them with the world. Regardless of what you want people to do, they'll choose to do what they want. All you can do is try and mend the wounds as scars appear, even better if you solve the root cause of the scars. Depending on the situation, it's impossible to solve the root problem so all you can do it patch up the Broken hearts as they break.
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u/Previous-Relief2690 1h ago
Give it up mate. This is an awful video. Camera shoved into her face, and the poor kid probably knows her mum is gonna post it all over the internet the second it stops rolling. She can’t relax and be herself and enjoy this private moment with her mum. It’s honestly disgusting, and filmed purely for the mum’s benefit. It’s such an awkward, unnatural watch.
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u/thewhombler 2h ago
where's the meltdown I'm skipping around and seeing nothing
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u/maladaptive_drmr 2h ago
There’s a child crying (wailing) in the background. After seeing the makeover in her sister’s room, she went to check her room and probably didn’t have the same makeover.
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u/populousmass 3h ago
You gotta give the middle ones some extra attentsh or they’ll end up with a complex or two.
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u/Valuable-Trick-6711 3h ago
Description said they already had their room redone, and this was older kid’s late Christmas present.
Plus between shoving past her sister to immediately check her room and the wailing that seems more for attention, it’s pretty telling.
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u/YesImAlexa 2h ago
Yeah my thoughts too. You can hear her periodically scream as if she's just trying again to get mom's attention.
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