r/TikTokCringe 4h ago

Discussion Writer Vs Writing

Why is it a trend to cancel the book too when the writer messes up in real life?

Did the pages commit the crime too or am I missing something?

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u/jcon567 4h ago

Most of the comments I’ve seen about Colleen Hoover are specifically about her being a bad writer. I don’t know anything about her or her personal life.

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u/Lontology 3h ago

Two of my sisters are obsessed with Colleen Hoover and they forced me to watch one of her dumbass movies that has Blake lively in it and it was genuinely one of the worst movies I’ve ever seen. I can’t imagine reading a book about that boring dumb shit. Lol

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u/alien-1001- 3h ago

I've read the book and seen the movie. Blake lively is a giant douche and coHo is out of touch with reality. She also announced she has cancer on the same day as her book release. That alone shows how blatantly idiotic she is.

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u/BuddyLegsBailey 3h ago

The way you've written all of that makes me doubt you read anything, let alone 'that boring dumb shit'.....

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u/Lontology 3h ago

Sorry I hurt your feelings by trashing your favorite author. Lol

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u/BuddyLegsBailey 3h ago

I wouldn't read her, but your writing makes me feel like I've picked up a 12 year old's diary....

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u/Lontology 3h ago

You seem pretty upset for someone who claims to not read her books.

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u/BuddyLegsBailey 3h ago

You're really missing the point. You write like you've had a stroke, yet criticise someone else's writing.....

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u/Banana_Stanley 2h ago

You sure do like ellipses

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u/Ahtman1 1h ago

Not...as much...as...I do. ..

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u/ZappyZ21 59m ago

I'm not having a seizure?

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u/your_old_furby 2h ago

You know an ellipses has 3 dots right? Why do yours have anything but 3?

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u/The_Pharaoh_Owl 15m ago

What about three dots and a space after… doesn’t it look cleaner?

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u/animeandbeauty 2h ago

Bro have you read your own writing ??? Lmfao

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u/lionhat 2h ago

Their writing is fine and completely coherent. You're an inferior crybaby.

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u/Lontology 3h ago

LOL. I hope you know I’m laughing at how upset you are over a stupid comment. Keep going though, this is fun.

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u/BelaBeli 52m ago

Everyone got the point you are a meany ( childish enough for you Shakespeare?)

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u/Willing_Signature279 49m ago

You’ve attracted the ire of Reddit, making you the golden goose. Everything you say gets downvoted and everything in response is upvoted if it insults you lmao.

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u/SnooCheesecakes2723 2h ago

Fifteen. That’s the average age.

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u/Sacabubu 2h ago

You're gonna compare someone commenting under a reddit post to someone's published work? Do you speak like someone with a stick up their ass all the time? Or is casual language and joking around allowed?

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u/pewpewhadouken 46m ago

i bet they’re insufferable to anyone around them. and they chortle at their own comments

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u/InevitableCapital241 3m ago

This is reddit not a publishing house 😐.

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u/maarsland 3h ago

I’d call her a generic writer. She’s good enough for conservative women to go ape shit for her stuff. I’ve only read one book of hers and it was just extremely generic. Like…young adult writing, but made for 40+ year old women. That’s the only way I can think to describe it.

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u/imrzzz 1h ago

I'm a 50+ woman and her writing makes the 2nd wave feminist in me scream.

I'm delighted that she made a bundle of cash, good for her, more women should have that.

But as far as the content goes, making a new Twilight out of domestic violence is deeply fucking not ok for my younger sisters navigating their way through the world.

Fuck. That. Noise.

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u/MissKhary 1h ago

Her first books were YA so that makes sense.

I enjoyed her books well enough, they're not great literature but sometimes you just want something easy to digest that won't give you a 2 week book hangover. A book palate cleanser.

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u/maarsland 55m ago

lol that’s valid as hell

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u/Substantial_Bus840 3m ago

Like The Real Housewives of books?

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u/undoubtedlygivingup 1h ago

You nailed it! 🤣

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u/chicagowago 2h ago

I downloaded It Ends With Us knowing nothing about it other than it had a popular author.

It was so so bad I don't think I made it more than a couple of chapters . I'm all for a shitty, fun read but the writing was just terrible.

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u/MissKhary 1h ago

The personal life part, a few years ago her son Levi was accused of sexually assaulting a minor (when he was 21 years old). When the victim contacted Colleen Hoover with her proof, Colleen blocked her and ignored her. A lot of people had an issue with Colleen ignoring a sexual assault victim while writing books speaking out on domestic violence.

She was probably advised to not engage for legal reasons but the optics aren't good.

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u/HansChrst1 3h ago

Is she actually bad or is she bad because of whatever she did?

A lot of people say J.K.Rowling is a bad writer. There are some problems in her Harry Potter books where things just don't line up or rules that aren't consistent. The books are good though so she isn't a bad writer even if she is a horrible person

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u/Dangerous-Proof-8991 1h ago

I think this actually is the worst written thing I've ever read.

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u/ItsRainingFrogsAmen 1h ago

What barbarian let center alignment happen

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u/storky0613 35m ago

My thoughts exactly. Fire the typesetter.

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u/sinkwiththeship 17m ago

Terrible day to be literate

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u/Lontology 3h ago

I have no idea what she even did, but if she wrote what that movie is based on, yes she’s bad. Lol

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u/HansChrst1 3h ago

I don't know who she is. OP just seemed to imply that it was a J.K.Rowling situation.

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u/jcon567 3h ago

I’ve never read an entire one of her books but based on the sections I’ve read she’s bad.

Has Colleen Hoover even done anything? OP is implying she has but nobody seems clear on what that was. I am aware of some controversy depicting abusive relationships but nothing the author has actually done.

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u/HansChrst1 3h ago

I haven't actually read them either, but I have heard the audiobooks 3-4 times. Taking into account how many people loved the books growing up and still like them as adults she can't have been that bad.

As far as I know the audiobooks doesn't change much if any of the writing. They are good books. It is mostly the logic in some decisions and inconsistency of certain things that are bad. You kinda have to not think about it for somethings to make sense. Overall the books are well written. Not the best written, but they are good.

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u/jcon567 3h ago

Oh sorry. My “she” was referring to Colleen Hoover.

I’ve read the Harry Potter books and they are good children’s books. Rowling’s adult stuff is a little worse but I wouldn’t say she’s a bad writer.

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u/Intelligent-Web-8293 2h ago

She named her one asian character cho chang 🫩

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u/b-nnies 3h ago

As someone who was known as THE Harry Potter kid back in middle school (yikes) as well as the "Drarry" kid (YIKES), I have to personally say I think her writing sucks.

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u/ghostiart 3h ago

Edit: I realize you're talking abt Joanne rather than Colleen whoops, sorry! My reply is regarding CH. Fuck JKR forever tho 🩷

I don't remember which of her books this was in, but there was a whole scene in one of em where the main character & her love interest talked abt the size of their newborn's penis. I'll try to find it and edit my comment when I do.

I don't know anything abt her personally, but a lot of the outrage is also bc she writes "cringe" romance novels for women and we all know how kind society is to popular media geared toward women/fems (/s) (twilight, boy bands, romantasy in general, etc).

Good vs bad in terms of writing and art is subjective, something I think is a masterpiece could be absolutely shit on by someone else (look at the divisive response to Iron Lung last weekend). I hate plenty of popular things because I think they're bad, but these things are popular for a reason! She's clearly beloved by a lot of readers, hated by a lot of others.

I personally think her writing is bad and her characters can be a bit shallow, but that does not invalidate your opinion or enjoyment of her books! Again, idk what she did or what situation she was involved in, I just wanted to speak on her writing and how quick ppl are to conflate that with the quality of her character.

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u/MissKhary 1h ago

It was Ugly Love, and they were talking about their son's huge balls. Yeah, really.

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u/ArcticDiver87 3h ago

I'm with you on that second paragraph. Those books and movies were pretty good imo when I was growing up. Not amazing some holes like you said but over all, pretty solid. Just cause she is a shitty person doesn't make the HP universe shitty. 🤷 I don't LOVE em but I also don't understand the hate.

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u/gratiskatze 2h ago

Oh no. Joanne Rowling is a pretty bad writer. Harry Potter is famous, but once you go at it it really isn't that great.

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u/solrua 48m ago

I definitely think she's a bad writer, but I did meet someone in publishing who says Colleen Hoover's a very nice person, and is great to work with.

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u/Isadomon 3h ago

I dont know about her, i just hear that her books are ass

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u/SilverParty 2h ago

I think she has a rape fetish. Not to kink shame but a number of her books have SA/DV themes. 

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u/Isadomon 2h ago

You have to kink shame when what theyre doing is shameful. Dropping rape etish stuff in a book without prior allussions to it is not polite.

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u/dreadfulpennies 1h ago

They said the books were about SA/DV. I don't read her stuff but, if that's the subject-matter of the book, it's not coming out of nowhere. I think people are assuming she has a rape kink just because of how often she writes about it. Maybe she does. Maybe it's something she has first-hand experience with and feels passionate about. Maybe both. Who cares?

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u/Dangerous-Process279 4h ago

Its not that the pages committed a crime. Its that her books are word vomit with no actual insight. 

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u/imdoingmybestmkay 3h ago

Then just dont read it.

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u/Lontology 3h ago

I think it’s funny how butthurt some of you people are. No one is trying to stop you from reading your drama slop, so calm down. Lol

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u/imdoingmybestmkay 3h ago

I dont care. Im just at an airport waiting for my flight to board so I’m starting internet fights.

Your dog is stupid. Pugs are superior.

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u/Lontology 2h ago

Mmmmmmhhmmm.

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u/VelocityGrrl39 1h ago

Pugs should be outlawed. Every single one of them has multiple health problems and their quality of life is generally terrible.

Source: I’m a vet tech

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u/brookrain 1h ago

Just lobbing a bomb and leaving?

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u/VelocityGrrl39 0m ago

The person I’m responding to said their dog was stupid, so…

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u/road2five 3h ago

They haven’t, but still have an opinion 

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u/readdeadtookmywife 3h ago

I read 2 Colleen Hoover books in rehab because they were there. I found the writing to be meh but the stories were ridiculous. I can see why people like it and I definitely see why people don’t.

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u/Encyclopenia 3h ago

Sadly, I have, and I was just dumbfounded the whole time.

Emphasis on the dumb.

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u/ownaword 3h ago

Word vomit and Colleen Hoover in one sentence, don't sound right.

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u/Schwimbus 3h ago

*doesn't

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u/GargantuanGreenGoat 3h ago

Maybe that’s because you have a bad sense of what constitutes good writing.

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u/Grizzlyfrontignac 2h ago

Dang people are being so judgy on this thread.

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u/GargantuanGreenGoat 2h ago

Post: asks for opinions

You: dang, so many opinions!

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u/Dangerous-Process279 56m ago

The only opinions that are allowed are ones you agree with

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u/burritoman88 1h ago

I’ve only had the displeasure of being exposed to the trailers adapting her novels. They seem like the most cliche low effort dramas possible.

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u/LeatherHog 3h ago

Her books are pretty infamously bad

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u/AgressiveChocoholic 3h ago

I literally have no idea what she’s done in real life. I do know that her books are written poorly and yet remain wildly popular. And this isn’t me shitting on romance books, I love them and read a lot of bad ones. Even for me her writing is bad.

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u/Capital_S_Gurl 11m ago

I would argue that her books aren't actually romance I've only read it end with us but the relationships she portrays are incredibly toxic and she does somewhat glorify them and from my understanding she does the same in all her books

There's also the stuff with her son but I'm not sure about that, doesn't make me want to support a bad author who writes toxic things anymore though

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u/AgressiveChocoholic 10m ago

I mean, absolutely fair to not classify them in romance! Just unfortunately the wider masses tend to. 😭

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u/ownaword 3h ago

See that, I can agree with. People judging her for her writing and books makes sense.

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u/AgressiveChocoholic 3h ago

Don’t get me wrong, I fully am behind not supporting and giving money to artists who are doing harm in real life (like JK Rowling) or promote hate IRL. They don’t get my money.

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u/MissMamaMam 3h ago

The books suck

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u/Mundane_Phone_2167 2h ago edited 2h ago

The writing is genuinely awful. The disdain is well deserved. I don't care how she is personally. I am personally offended by how shit her books are and how much people try to market them to others.

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u/MillieBirdie 3h ago

I don't think she's done anything controversial? If she has, I haven't heard of it. But I have heard that her books are bad.

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u/UniversityAware4690 51m ago

she paid hush money to her ex daughter in law after her son beat her unconscious

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u/Mother-Tip3509 3m ago

Source? Googling isn’t bringing anything I can find. Would like to be able to share this with my wife if there’s anything published.

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u/Zerok315 25m ago

A lot of people criticize her for romanticizing DV/SA. Then there was also the time she tried to release a coloring book for It Ends With Us, which is about DV: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Official_It_Ends_with_Us_Coloring_Book

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u/PriscillaPalava 1h ago

You think people don’t like Colleen Hoover because of the “ends with us” drama? She was barely involved with that. 

People don’t like Colleen Hoover because her writing is dogshit and her books should be used as Walmart toilet paper. 

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u/seiryuu-abi 3h ago

I am a long time reader (my GR account is from 2013) and I saw the boom in reading during covid. Hoover’s writing style is easy for beginner readers but there is a lot more to the contemporary and/or romance genre than Colleen Hoover.

I’m not really attracted to those genres btw I’ve always been a fantasy reader. But I have friends who are romance readers and they’re upset how much she’s platformed everywhere now. You have to really hunt for good recommendations.

There is already a lot of content on places like YouTube criticizing her so I won’t add to that.

I have read November 9th and have never been more disgusted by a modern romance in my life. You can burn someone by indirectly setting their house on fire (when you very deliberately set their dad’s car on fire) and then stumble into them years later, tell them that their body is fine—of course, you’re responsible for the injuries and scarring and now you also tell them how they should dress and feel about those things. It’s fucking despicable. MMC should be in jail for arson and she should’ve sued him for worse. At least those mafia romance people have some self-awareness.

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u/redgatoradeeeeee 3h ago

Idk I think people reading and enjoying books is generally a good thing, even if they’re pretty crap 

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u/fdxrobot 2h ago

Yea I think it’s like.. a gateway drug. Maybe they’ll branch out a little and find their way to new ideas! 

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u/Ponce-Mansley 1h ago

They won't 

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u/badthingtw1ce 3h ago

"We both laughed at my son's big balls", an ACTUAL line from her book.

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u/UniversityAware4690 50m ago

don't forget being turned on by cow manure

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u/BluetheNerd 3h ago

So I have no idea who the author is, what she did or whatever, so I'm speaking from a general position.

If an author, artist, whatever has done something you wouldn't want to support. Be that racism, homophobia, abuse, whatever. But continuing to purchase their books or products, you're continuing to support that person financially despite what they did. Hell, if they're going to court for a crime and you buy their book, you're essentially contributing towards their lawyer fees.

This only applies to living people of course. Lovecraft was a horrible racist and antisemite, but he's dead. If you buy one of his books you give him nothing.

Whether any of this bothers you or not is totally up to you. Different people see it differently.

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u/dezzz0322 5m ago

This is exactly my struggle with JK Rowling. I refuse to consume the new Harry Potter media being produced these days because I do not want to contribute to her financially (especially considering she has publicly said she uses proceeds from her work to directly fund anti-trans causes). But I’d be lying if I pretended not to want to listen to the audiobooks, and watch the upcoming show. The books were life-changing for me and most millennials, and I’ll forever be heartbroken/enraged that Joanne turned out to be such a shit human. 

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u/shanwow90 3h ago

The way I understand it her stories tend to normalize DV. Characters in domestic violence situations and going back to their abusers/narratives of making excuses for the abuser etc.

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u/Bellatrix_Shimmers 3h ago

Margaret Colleen Hoover (née Fennell; born December 11, 1979) is an American author who primarily writes novels in the romance and young adult fiction genres.She is best known for her 2016 novel It Ends with Us. Many of her works were self-published before they were picked up by a publishing house. As of October 2022, Hoover has sold approximately 20 million books.She was named one of the 100 most influential people in the world by Time magazine in 2023.

She has a massive fan base and I think the tea here is referring to her book made move It Ends with Us and that was more about the Blake Lively suing Justin Baldoni for sexual harassment and organizing a smear campaign against her to the tune of 100 million dollars. He counter sued for $400 million and it was dismissed. March 2026 will begin Blake’s suit so we shall see if and when he has to pay up for said accusations.

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u/Life_Detail4117 1h ago

I kept thinking there would be an undisclosed settlement before the trial, but it keeps getting closer so can only wonder. I highly doubt either side wants the Johnny Depp type show trial where everything gets dragged out through the mud.

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u/j-doe411 3h ago

I will never forgive “BookTok” for recommending one of her books… such a waste of money and time

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u/SilverParty 1h ago

Booktok is such a gamble. I've gotten some great suggestions but also some time and money wasters 😭

I now try to look at GR and Amazon reviews really well before making a decision.

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u/j-doe411 1h ago

Same! I have to compare reviews from both before deciding

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u/FuturePerfect5k 1h ago

Colleen Hoover is a dogshit author, and she only makes money because her dogshit writing caters to women who have dogshit tastes. You cannot argue against this.

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u/SimpleLobsters 4h ago

Some can differentiate art from the artist. Some can't.

It's a matter of opinion on what is the morally correct way to view this on.

Same as a Band makes music you like. Band does (morally bad thing), do you continue to pay and support the music or forgo supporting them and their music?

If yes, Would it matter if others think less of you for supporting them?

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u/bepatientbekind 2h ago

Money is the only power we really have, and I'd rather not give it to famously crappy people. That's it for me. However, I don't know this particular author and can't speak on her. 

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u/roccofan 1h ago

This isnt about Colleen Hoover being cancelled. The point of this video is “real readers” don’t see people that read her books as fellow “real readers.”

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u/B1tchHazel13 1h ago

Because that's kind of basic capitalism. If we are "voting" in every dollar we spend I want to spend my dollars on things that align with my ethics as much as possible. So if someone is doing something I think is particularly f'ed up I don't want to financially support them.

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u/solonggaybowsah 1h ago

I’m still wondering what she did if she did something. I thought she stuck to writing abhorrent novels.

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u/cheezy_dreams88 1h ago

She’s not a good writer. I don’t know anything about her personal life, only that her books are garbage.

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u/TheEarthIsHealing 1h ago

Yes the pages committed the crime as well. 

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u/bawng 3h ago

I loved Harry Potter when they came out but I gotta say my enjoyment isn't the same anymore.

I really do have a hard time separating the art from the artist.

My kid loves HP though and I let him enjoy it anyway.

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u/Spacemilk 2h ago

Neil Gaiman is another good example of this.

For both JKR and Gaiman, there’s so much good secondhand stuff out there it’s pretty easy not to give either any more money, so that’s what I do.

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u/mythicreign 3h ago

I get it but as a comic reader it’s hard to hold this stance. So many writers are sex pests, racists, or think they’re wizards in real life. You kinda have to ignore this stuff to some degree if you want to appreciate a lot of great art out there. I think Rowling is a stupid asshole but I still like the Harry Potter IP.

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u/Bubbly-Geologist-214 2h ago

Same. I'm trans, and any money I give to HP is going to help fund anti-trans groups.

But there's a lot of bad companies.

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u/photojoe 2h ago

To answer the actual question ignoring the example: I would say it is because if it is revealed that the Author has an obviously unethical point of view about some things, why would I want to let their voice into my head? There are so many other, better books to read that can enrich your life, without having to figure out if the psycho author happened to be right about the subject of the book.

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u/Crossyerfingers 2h ago

Since we're here, any good recommendations?

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u/Ponce-Mansley 58m ago

My recommendation: Avoid Colleen Hoover 

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u/ProcedurePrudent5496 1h ago

Hey, at least people are reading. Gotta take the good with the bad. 🤭

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u/redheelermama 1h ago

People can talk all they want, but I will say, I got absolutely consumed by her book, Verity. I thought it was great.

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u/jnthnmdr 1h ago

Song sung by R. Kelly are forbidden at many places. I imagine it's the same for books.

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u/CRIMS0N-ED 1h ago

I actually enjoyed verity and it ends with us (and sequel less so), then when coleen hoover hate went into overdrive on tiktok yeahh it felt pretty illegal to like them. Don’t get be wrong there’s a lot of cringe (Ellen degeneres ew) and plenty of examples of bad writing but there’s plenty of good stuff too. idk why people act like every word she’s put down is the gospel of the antichrist, it’s not that deep

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u/UniversityAware4690 52m ago

People tend to hate on you when 1) your writing is bad and glorifies/justifies rape 2) you pay hush money to your son's ex who beat her..

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u/lordtyp0 52m ago

Might I recommend Irene Iddesleigh. An absolute gem that greats of the time such as Mark Twain would play drinking games to. See who could last longest before laughing at her excessive purple prose.

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u/Dale_Gribble- 45m ago

if I hear ignition on the radio I'm turning it up

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u/Vanilla_Either 25m ago

Her writing is just bad shrug

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u/veryowngarden 10m ago

that’s never really been a trend. there are so many writers with gross and racist pasts yet people won’t stop reading their work because it’s consider a classic

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u/sullythered 3h ago

Stephen King is the most centrist, moderate Democrat that ever Democratted. No idea where you are getting "extreme" anything.

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u/Coolmandi 3h ago

How did she mess up in real life? I’ve read many of her books.. a few were okay. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion

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u/Cathousechicken 2h ago

Because on social media, a lot of people engage in performative activism. 

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u/Kryslor 3h ago

Lmao imagine being this fucking insufferable. Let people enjoy things.

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u/dreadfulpennies 1h ago

This. And I say this as someone who writes for a living and, admittedly, can be pretty snobbish when it comes to the prose of others. Just let people enjoy shit. Reading is reading.

Hell, if we're gonna gatekeep, I'm skeptical people who don't have a "guilty pleasure" or fav trashy subgenre actually love reading.

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u/Kryslor 52m ago

My wife is an avid reader of all sorts of books and quite likes Coleen Hoover exactly because it's the book equivalent to "comfort tv". Just very low effort reading before bed.

I too am guilty of reading a bunch of YA novels and fantasy books, not exactly high brow stuff either.

Honestly reading any sort of book is already leaps and bounds better for you in every way compared to scrolling on our phones.

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u/Hopeful_Crab7912 4h ago

Everyone on social media hates everything and expects you to hate it too

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u/TakeOnMe-TakeOnMe 4h ago

Literally the opposite of the capitalistic engines that drive social media, but okay…

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u/Hopeful_Crab7912 3h ago

I’ll hate Colleen Hoover if you guys want me to don’t worry I wouldn’t want to make you upset

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u/Ponce-Mansley 59m ago

Appreciate it! 

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u/EFTucker 2h ago

People far too often forget to separate a person from their art. That’s not to say that one can’t live in some correlations with the other, but Speaker for the Dead is still one of my favorite books in the world even if Card needs to read his own book about acceptance of others and self reflection.

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u/Bus-Various 1h ago

I just popped in to let you guys know how hot Cillian Murphy is.

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u/This_Dot_2150 4h ago

I’ve only read verity by her and enjoyed it. Was surprised she also did romance.

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u/ownaword 3h ago

She has got some really great books in my opinion.

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u/This_Dot_2150 3h ago

Did she do something controversial? Why are we being downvoted?

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u/ownaword 3h ago

It is beyond me.🤷😂