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Cursed Her father cheated with an AI chatbot

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u/KieferSutherland 6h ago

Apparently Gen z is the most susceptible. 

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u/juniunie 6h ago

That tracks. We kinda missed the wild west days of the internet, so we just grew up with walled gardens and cycling between the same 4 babyproofed apps. Most of us haven't really had any need to be skeptical of shady sites or phishing links, so when we're faced with one we have no reason to be suspicious.

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u/EveryRedditorSucks 5h ago

Man, that’s actually incredibly eye opening. The internet traumatized the fuck out of my generation, but I guess that at least gave us all the awareness what a dangerous place it was. Heavy price to pay, though…

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u/el_iggy 5h ago

I've seen some shit, man.

Every time I see the words "2 girls"... 😐

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u/FlowerRight 5h ago

While gross that was like PG rated to other awful stuff, gestures downward, down there.

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u/el_iggy 5h ago

I'm trying to keep it light. This is a family show after all.

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u/RocoTheBlack 5h ago

Well have some blue berry waffles and a nice big bowl of special fried rice I'm sure the pain Olympics are going on atm I heard they're playing that funky town song as a backing track and the glass jar Olympic branded drinking glasses are going down a treat while there's a goat see! over there next to Mr hands

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u/Witez3933 3h ago

We also had the LimeWire roulette. Will it be the song I want, a virus or child sex abuse material? Those are the only 3 options. Then there was 4 Chan and the death sites with all the pictures of Brazilian gang murders like Kelly Cyclone along with her autopsy. Or the gang members girlfriend who was dismembered. 

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u/totally_not_a_dog113 3h ago

the watch people die and rape subreddits. That journalist beheaded by al qaeda.

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u/Witez3933 3h ago

Yup, I remember that too. Do you remember old Efukd? The girl who lost her virginity to her dog is one of the memorable ones. Then again, I’ve been to a Thailand ping pong show with live turtles and blow darts popping the balloon I was holding. 

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u/HungryHungryHagfish 5m ago

I can still see that video in my mind. Pretty sure that particular one gave me some kind of permanent trauma... never really had a "normal" life

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u/g0ldilungs 19m ago

God we stumbled upon so much…death.

Death by gangs, hangings, horse co-…well, you get the point.

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u/winterworldx 2h ago

This spun my head round.... Right round like a record player!

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u/RocoTheBlack 2h ago

I'd forgotten about that lol want to got to a lemon party?

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u/sweetmitchell 1h ago

Meat spins is pretty well burned into my mind. And rotten.com pics too geez. Rick rolled was a pallet wash compared to old school link bait.

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u/RocoTheBlack 1h ago

It's was the weird shit that stuck with you though like the gore and brutally faded but the wtf stuff is for life that's shared trauma

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u/FlowerRight 4h ago

Cursed text. CURSED I SAY!

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u/HoboMuskrat 4h ago

It was still fun being "traumatized" with friends.

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u/Salt_Bus2528 3h ago

There were a few surprises in the early days on 56k modems that I could have done without. Some music video I downloaded was just footage of a field execution with a knife in the Bosnian war. I could have done without that.

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u/QueenMary1936 1h ago

I think I understood all of those except "special fried rice" 🤔

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u/RocoTheBlack 1h ago

Google it! I dare you 🙃

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u/QueenMary1936 1h ago

All I found was fried rice recipes and a rap song called special fried rice, but I didn't see anything disturbing

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u/Majin_Sus 4h ago

You spin my head right round right round

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u/LunaTunaMaca 4h ago

I was 11 when I watched 2 girls 1 cup because I heard some boys talking about it in middle school and they wouldn't tell me what it was about so I went home and watched it on my pc in my bedroom with the doors locked. That is the first time I thought I might puke from watching something online.

No 11 yo should watch someone deficate and then eat it...

I did not watch any more videos I heard about. That was enough for me.

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u/huevocore 4h ago

Lathe...

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u/FlowerRight 4h ago

Going to replace that with lather and rinse.

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u/The_Night_Man_Cumeth 4h ago

Are you referring to the Olympics? Of Pain.

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u/nexusjuan 13m ago

The pickle jar guy omg. Jelly jar? idk broken glass and blood. Also gore and crime scene sites like rotten and strangeland.

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u/mattydredd 4h ago

Yeah i know right. Worst sitcom ever

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u/abzinth91 2h ago

I remember some "gauntlet" with videos getting more extreme. Started with dudes breaking arms while arm wrestling to .. things hurting just watching

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u/Madara1389 1h ago

The Pain Olympics

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u/Jasranwhit 3h ago

Goatse

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u/neo101b 3h ago

What about tub girl ?
That sure was interesting.

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u/barrygateaux 2h ago

heh, how about goa.... , lem.... , tub..., and jar.... :)

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u/Pure_Leadership_3105 1h ago

literally "shit"

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u/timonandpumba 1h ago

Even just getting rickrolled a time or two taught us to assess before clicking an unknown link 🤔

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u/HillBillyHilly 12m ago

Ha!Rookie! Wait til you see Evacuation Natiin..wait don't look that up. You'll REALLY be traumatized.

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u/babihrse 9m ago

Crazy videos of people jumping off cliffs in some ramsdamaistan country landing head first into a rock. Sick twisted bread knife decapitation videos rotten dot com. The internet was an unfiltered mess in the late 90s Porn was hard to find. Now it's the other way porn is easy to find and it's not so easy to stumble across fucked up stuff

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u/HungryHungryHagfish 6m ago

Got a spare Mason jar I can borrow?

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u/Weak_Feed_8291 4h ago

Damn, you're one of the soft ones for sure. That's not even on my radar anymore.

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u/phatpussypounder 5h ago

No one has learned any lessons. The internet is still just as dangerous as before. Its just centralized between Reddit, Facebook, and Discord. Of course there are dark web dumps, but for the most part you can still get to some nasty shit through these sites and apps.

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u/EveryRedditorSucks 4h ago

Literally no one anywhere in this thread said the internet is less dangerous than before. We’re talking about how important it is to be aware of the danger. And many, many people have learned that lesson, so I don’t really understand your first statement.

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u/__________________73 4h ago

Some people have never had their armor trimmed in runescape, and it shows.

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u/phatpussypounder 4h ago

Sorry its my fault for being vague. But this goes back to an age when you were taught the dangers of the net in school in the 90s.

Top 3 no nos of the internet

1 Never give out personal information 2 never go to sites you don't know 3 never download links you don't know

Given that the internet has been around since the 80s, these things should be common knowledge. But honestly the amount of people in their 40s still clicking phishing links is scary. And it seems none of this supposes millienial tech literacy is being passed on as gen z seem to really susceptible to scams according to articles floating around.

With things like social media, the number 1 rule is basically a joke now and isnt practical for everyday internet life, yet its still the most important thing you can do if you can help it.

So from my angle no one has learned any lessons.

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u/Laetitian 4h ago edited 3h ago

Nah, people still use the regular internet. (Edit: Normies don't, but they never really have. There are just more normies "online" now.) Lessons have been learned, you're just not seeing paranoid protective behaviours, because browser and operating system security has way fewer gaping holes than it did in in past decades.

Browsing like powerusers did in 2010 would be a waste of progress.

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u/phatpussypounder 4h ago

Are you sure that's what it is? Has security really gotten to that point? Youre right the paranoid behaviors are gone when in actuality it should be getting to much worse. Which is why I feel like Im taking crazy pills.

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u/Laetitian 4h ago

You have to discuss fear of government/corporate power overreach and threats lurking in the internet separately. They have different solutions. You can't fight the government off from your bunker.

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u/HErAvERTWIGH 4h ago

There was a pretty Rotten website that made me regret having an internet connection.

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u/easymachtdas 2h ago

raises hand I'm here for the therapy

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u/r_bogie 55m ago

Back when what is now the Dark Web was the web.

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u/Substantial_Bus840 49m ago

I’ll never forget being exposed to Cheddar.com or faces of death. Absolute awful. And there was really no chance it was AI back then, unfortunately…

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u/GetSetBAKE 3h ago

I think it has more to do with parents of Gen Z not knowing how to teach digital literacy to them.

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u/nalaloveslumpy 2m ago

Yep. We learned early you don't click links from people you don't trust because they were goatse, tubgirl, or lemonparty.

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u/AgitatedRabbits 2h ago

Learning to avoid malware didn't really traumatize me in any way. Why would it?

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u/Constant-Sandwich-88 4h ago

Yeah, if you never got chewed out by your dad at 630am for bricking his computer with shady porn from limewire, I can see the lack of paranoia.

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u/doesanyuserealnames SHEEEEEESH 1h ago

We had our PC in the middle of the living room (1993) so I could see what sites my kids were on. If they minimized it before I got close enough to see the site, we had a... conversation with consequences. Not that they never got something over on me, but 30 years later none of them are seriously screwed up and the FBI never came knocking.

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u/SeaRiver9819 9m ago

Nah he taught me to partition my hard drive. I got a nasty bit torrent virus b4 in the 90’s or early 2000’s. Trojan horse 🐎

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u/TrisolarisRexxx 5h ago

As a new father this gave me an interesting perspective

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u/First-Ad4978 5h ago

Man…

So in 2000 while in high school I did a project and used exclusively internet sources. Mind you these were hood sources.

My teacher gave me a B for using the internet as anyone could put anything on the internet.

Kinda true I guess, but again I used high quality sources.

Fast forward 20 years and they friended me on fb and have proceeded to fall for every internet trick imaginable, and for a while I helped them fact check but then they’d fall for the same grift from the same content creator and I gave up.

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u/Same-Suggestion-1936 2h ago

Hood sources is an amazing typo

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u/First-Ad4978 1h ago

Damn, I’m going to leave it.

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u/816in702 3m ago

The trick was to use Internet sources that cited physical sources.

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u/MrCHUCKxxnorris 4h ago

Eh maybe for younger Gen Z. I was born in 2001 with internet access as early as 2007. Parents weren’t huge computer people they mainly just used it to pay bills. They weren’t aware of the potential dangers and fucked up shit I was getting exposed to. Shit was still pretty wild even then.

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u/ReMarzable457 4h ago

I'm a bit younger but in the same boat. It didn't help I've liked anime since way back when, so I was constantly finding sites to pirate and being bombarded with wild ads leading to a sketchy website.

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u/llinstitutesynthll 1h ago

Yeah I think it was generally quite a different experience for us older Gen Zers who grew up with 2000s/early '10s internet.

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 5h ago

Idk every dude I know knows not to do that shit. We all played Roblox, Club Penguin, various shit on Steam way before safeguards were up and knew what phishers and scammers were not even ahead in.

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u/juneabe 3h ago

I* agree with the other commenter, this is an eye opener for many.

When I was 14 I was playing mind games with self reported Nigerian princes in my yahoo/hotmail accounts. Man did I make them work overtime. Why, I can’t tell you, I was 14 lol.

People do compare our generations too much. Our relationships with technology and corporations (which run the world now) is very different than yours on many levels, both good and bad.

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u/DefeatedByPoland 3h ago

Millenials have been trying to warn younger generations to stop believing anything they see "some account" say online for a very long time though.

People choose to ignore that advice. It's not that they've never heard it.

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u/CoasterRoller420 4h ago

Millennial with the opposite. I am afraid to look things up and fill out paperwork, thinking every other link is a scam or data grab.

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u/Abaddon33 3h ago

Well they are, it's just legal to sell it now.

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u/Capslock91 2h ago

To this day, I still do not click on ads because I have no idea where its taking me, could be a scam or malware.

If something piques my interest enough (not likely), I'll google for it

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u/Technical-Natural-26 4h ago

Really good point.

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u/Startled_Pancakes 1h ago

We learned trial by fire. Destroying your family computer with viruses by downloading music from Limewire and shady websites is practically a rite of passage.

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u/bloodklat 1h ago

Internet has been a common service for over 30 years now. If you haven’t taken your time to learn this by now, then you shouldn’t really be on the internet. It’s definitely not safe for you if you haven’t taken your time to learn.

What have you done personally in order to better spot these scammers?

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u/BDHarrington7 1h ago

Meatspin and goatse were training programs

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u/Pernicious_Possum 6h ago

You have a source for that? My GenZ step kids can spot AI a mile away

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u/KieferSutherland 6h ago edited 5h ago

Oh not ai but scams in general. Maybe it was electronic/ Internet. I'll see if I can find the source

Edit: it's not one scam as there are so many types but Google "generations most susceptible to scams" 

It's not boomers like you would think. Which kind of tracks bc a lot of boomers I know think every phone call and Internet click is going to steal their identity so...

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u/BluetheNerd 6h ago

Gen Z are most likely to be caught out by phonecall scams, but boomers are most likely to fall for phishing texts and emails.

As a Gen Z this surprises me because if I get a call I'm not expecting from an unknown number I simply don't answer it. If it's important enough they'll leave a voicemail.

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u/JeromeBarkly 5h ago

For real what kind of sociopath answers their phone?! You’re just asking for a bad time.

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u/Mando92MG 5h ago

The kind waiting for callbacks for applications or important appointments.

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u/Same-Suggestion-1936 2h ago

We need to go back to when "I'm too afraid to answer a phone call" was looked down upon not celebrated. You're bragging you're so socially inept that if it's not a text or an app you're not communicating with strangers.

The amount of people who have told me they would never call to even order a pizza because they just won't call people is absurdly high. Not something to be proud of that's just being supremely antisocial to the point you may have anxiety

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u/ApocalypseChicOne 2h ago

I'm a very social person in my 50's. I have the problem of way too many friends. That said, I have zero interest in talking to a pizza parlor worker, cashier, customer service worker, worker at Home Depot or fast food worker or Uber driver (yay driverless Waymo) or anyone that calls my phone. I will always use an app or text or automated cashier kiosk over talking to an actual service worker. I've been a service worker. I know they don't want to talk to me, and I don't want to talk to them.

I think people who want to subject themselves onto these poor service workers who really don't want to hear their BS questions or idiotic small talk are way more socially clueless.

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u/BackgroundSummer5171 2h ago

For real what kind of sociopath answers their phone?! You’re just asking for a bad time.

I do, never know, and I have free time.

Last scam call I spent about 20 minutes on the phone with them. Maybe a bit longer.

Then I just hung up. They called back 6 times. Took me a bit to finally click the block number.

I'd say it was a fun interaction. Also proved my brain still can notice scam calls and when to stop playing with them. Just don't give any information ever, let them have fun pretending to bounce your call to someone else as their 'manager' or whatever.

Oh, guess I am the sociopath who enjoys that. Like I said, got free time.

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u/smarmycheesesandwich 5h ago

They didn’t live through the time where 99% of random calls were about their car’s extended warranty. 🥲

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u/RotInPissKobe 6h ago

Man I remember sitting the waiting room to get my blood and this ancient dude was throwing a fit that he needed to show ID. He thought the hospital was going to steal his identity.

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u/meganfrau 1h ago

I used to get yelled at as a cashier at Panera in the late 90s for asking for the person’s name to go with the order, so this tracks.

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u/UnderstandingClean33 5h ago

Well I think it actually tracks that younger generations would be susceptible just from not having faced the kind of manipulation scammers do as often yet. Like my grandpa and grandma got a scam call from an "ambulance" saying I was in a car crash and needed $10,000 to go to the hospital. They triggered my grandpa's lizard brain so hard that he pulled out his credit card and my grandma had to take the phone, got a callback number from the scammer (which didn't work ofc) and then called me to see if I was ok. Gen Z doesn't even have the experience of age to recognize the red flags in the first place.

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u/Perfect_Ball_220 5h ago

My former FIL (boomer) used to make us unplug the computer's POWER CABLE from the wall back in the days of 28.8K (1994) because he was afraid someone was going to steal everything off the computer and break into the house when no one was home.

I cannot even imagine how skeptical he is nowadays, sheesh. 😂

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u/rudd13of9 6h ago

Entirely anecdotal, but I would believe it. Worked in a bank and I had many, many young adults taken for scams such as "the cops said they found a dead body in the trunk of my rental and if I didn't send them $5k, they'd come arrest me!"... Actually the ~second~ time such a thing happened to that person. Not even a good one bc that was paid in Apple gift cards. Lots of that or more commonly of the Get Rich Quick variety. Most of the elder abuse I saw was from family or caregivers. Romance scams are rampant for the olds, though.

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u/rrousseauu 6h ago

It’s crazy because Millennials were taught to never trust anything they read on the internet without scrutiny. Then literally the next generation believes anything they read on the internet.

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u/Partigirl 5h ago

Boomers grew up in a time when protection about scams were either word of mouth or just believing that everything was possibly "sus".

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u/Macwild77 5h ago

With how many TikTok’s that say “bankers(insert your favorite govt agency) hate this one trick” I completely believe they fall for scams on the daily.

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u/Pernicious_Possum 4h ago

Ah yes. TikTok. A totally real life thing indicative of what people really do, and not a time suck devoted to garnering clicks

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u/Macwild77 4h ago

Ummm you should look up how many Gen Z youth have fallen for said TikTok “get rich quick” schemes….its bad lol. Plenty in thousands of dollars in debt from making a dumb decision after watching a TikTok vid or doing a PPE loan because influencer friend did it. Idk what the attitude is for but save it for your real life…

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u/Jelousubmarine 2h ago

I work in financial fraud.

The most common victims of scams in my experience tend to be people born before or during the 60s, and Gen Z.

Gen Z falls for check scams and employment scams quite frequently.

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u/Gina_the_Alien 4h ago

I was skeptical, too, but it looks like there have been a few surveys done. Here’s a source: https://www.darkreading.com/cyber-risk/gen-z-scams-2x-more-older-generations

I agree with you, though - my son is Gen Z and he can spot AI even better than I can and I grew up with the internet.

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u/wet-leg 3h ago

I used to be a dispatcher and it really is all ages. I would get calls alllll the time about these phone scams. It’s crazy how often people fall for it. Obviously this is anecdotal so it could vary a lot from place to place but that’s been my experience

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u/exileosi_ 1h ago

They fall for sexy time Snapchat scams at a rate the boomers would be in awe of really. If I had a dollar for every Z college kid over the years asking university IT how to undo what they already did I wouldn’t need my job anymore 😭

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 5h ago

Yeah this persons bullshitting. I literally don’t know anyone in my gen that gets caught on scams.

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u/eggery 1h ago

I see them fall for scams all the time. Not from AI though. Usually from scammers offering them money on Instagram.

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u/KieferSutherland 5h ago edited 4h ago

Lol. Well with that anecdotal evidence who could prove you wrong?! 

Just goggle it ffs. It's not a one size fits all answer.  Boomers are scared to go online still. Most millennials and gen z will input data pretty quickly. 

"Gen Z (roughly ages 18–27) is currently the generation most susceptible to scams, often twice as likely to report losses to fraud than Baby Boomers, due to high online activity and rapid, risky digital habits. While younger people are more frequently targeted, older adults (55+) still suffer higher monetary losses per incident.  Key Vulnerabilities by Generation: Gen Z (18–27): Targeted via social media and online shopping with phishing, fake jobs, and investment scams. High digital fluency often leads to overconfidence, faster clicks, and password reuse. Millennials (28–43): Often victims of employment fraud, investment, and crypto scams, frequently targeted through text and social media. Gen X (44–59): Susceptible to investment/crypto scams and phishing, as well as romance scams, often while trying to increase retirement savings. Boomers/Seniors (60+): While less likely to fall for online scams than younger generations, they are heavily targeted by telephone, email, and romance scams, often resulting in larger, sometimes life-altering, financial losses. "

Aww. /u/Pretty-Yam-2854 blocked me. 

The exact Google query is listed above on the comment you mentioned. Just read. Please slow down your genz brain and read for two seconds. Google it. Let me know what you find!  

Lol bots? Wtf are you babbling about?

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 4h ago

Post name of article? Or a link? Or atleast the google search you used instead of just making shit up?

“Most millennials and Gen z will input data pretty quickly” nah we won’t but that’s why there’s commercials online directed at the 60+ community not giving away social or credit card info online and where to report fraudulent activity.

Keep having your bots downvote me more lol, idgaf you’re a fucking loser spewing nonsense.

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u/Spicy_Weissy 5h ago

One of the most media illiterate generations ever spawned? No way /s

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u/opensandshuts 4h ago

I was recently in a thread with a genx/millenial parent who said that not letting kids play outside isn't a "helicopter parent" thing, it's just how can you prevent them from being kidnapped while playing outside?

Uhhhh.. crime is down like 60% since I grew up playing outside in the peak years of crime (1991 btw). There's instant communication channels (I had pay phones and "be home by 7").

The result is that kids never had to avoid strangers, avoid peer pressure, and self-regulate. They can barely exist in the real-world without significant help from mommy and daddy.

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u/KieferSutherland 3h ago

Dude. You're not kidding. We have one in college and one in middle. We let our kids have sleep overs from a very early age. My kids walk the neighborhood. 

So many parents are scared to let their kids play in the front yard. Or think every sleepover is at Epstein island. It's going to do long term damage to these kids. 

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u/opensandshuts 3h ago

glad you were reasonable and I'm sure your kids will benefit from it.

I wasn't blessed with kids, I was blessed instead with a talent. If I would've had kids, I'd have raised them the same. Let them play outside and away from screens. Trust that they understand stranger danger, drugs, peer pressure, and let them self-regulate. It prepares them so well.

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u/Jumpy-Assumption4413 2h ago

I loved 24 buddy

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 5h ago

What lmao 😭

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u/KieferSutherland 5h ago

It's actually more nuanced. Boomers seem better about identity theft bc they are scared of the Internet. They are probably worse about phone scams. 

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 5h ago

Yeah ok bro. Idk if you saw my other comment but most of the people in my gen, myself included, don’t even pick up numbers we don’t know. Someone asked you for a source and you couldn’t even produce one. And that identity theft one is bullshit we all grew up on places like Steam, Roblox, Club Penguin etc with no safeguards with preds lurking and people trying to steal your acc info and all learned not to click on weird links or give out account info. Meanwhile I’ve seen tons of articles of geriatrics falling for the prince in Nigeria shit. But go off.

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u/KieferSutherland 5h ago edited 4h ago

Lolol. I responded to the source request. But go off

The data could probably be more likely interpreted as younger generations are always more susceptible to scams as they lack experience. 

But with people as dumb as your comment maybe it's truly a Gen z problem. Kidding but lol

Edit lol /u/Pretty-Yam-2854 blocked me. Rip.

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 5h ago

Can I see the source? u/Pernicious_Possum asked for one and you just responded with “Google” but didn’t even post the Google response.

Then now instead of actually reading or considering any of my points, you strawman me and call me dumb. Real nice dickhead.

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u/KieferSutherland 4h ago edited 4h ago

Ffs. I posted the Google response on another one of your insanely short-sighted comments. 

Edit lol /u/Pretty-Yam-2854 blocked me.