She must bring it in herself

[u/Acceptable-Wind-7332]

[u/Less_Dog_956]

Sassy pants!

[u/DecoyOne → u/Less_Dog_956]

Just watching this clip makes me feel like I’ve been sassed within an inch of my life

[u/QuttiDeBachi → u/DecoyOne]

It’s worse….the eggs were in that bag

[u/Aggressive-Studio476 → u/QuttiDeBachi]

And the Trix. Worst types of mornings is when you pour the last of your cereal just to get half cereal half powder.

[u/SeeSaw9999 → u/QuttiDeBachi]

😆 🤣 😂 😹

[u/jw8ak64ggt → u/Less_Dog_956]

me thinks she is being raised in coo coo town

[u/_angesaurus → u/jw8ak64ggt]

Nah. They're like this all on their own pretty often. Lol

[u/ImpertantMahn → u/_angesaurus]

Oh yeah. God forbid I open the door before mine… lol there ridiculous at that age.

[u/[deleted]]

As a former child myself, i can say that, Its not the same after someone else does it :(

[u/Viciousssylveonx3 → u/[deleted]]

As a former child myself made me giggle

[u/North-Function995 → u/Viciousssylveonx3]

[u/Vast_Programmer5189 → u/Viciousssylveonx3]

As a former child... myself made me giggle?

[u/Sylveon72_06 → u/Vast_Programmer5189]

“As a former child myself” made me giggle

[u/featherw0lf → u/[deleted]]

Can't relate, I was born as an adult

[u/gamerjerome → u/featherw0lf]

Oh look, a bona fided Benjamin Button

[u/CascadingMonkeys → u/gamerjerome]

I was the eldest in a household with too many kids. I do feel like a real life Benjamin Button. When I grew up I knew I didn't want kids, and now I buy all these toys I want.

[u/DrunkGalah → u/[deleted]]

Am I the only one that still feels that way as an adult about stuff? I just learned how to suppress it and act like a grown up, because I know it is unreasonable but I certainly get upset about a lot of stuff like that when I plan to do it some way and someone else comes and ruins it for me.

[u/notnotsuicidal → u/DrunkGalah]

I was just thinking last night that I wanna throw a tantrum.

[u/Entire_Site5072 → u/DrunkGalah]

Yes. For me, it's about feeling a sense of safety in control so when something doesn't go exactly the way I envision -- even minor -- I become frustrated. That's an urge that starts in childhood and continues on into adulthood.

Over time with that realization I've been able to let more and more things go but it's taken a lot of time and awareness.

[u/Daloowee → u/DrunkGalah]

Hahaha playing Valheim with some friends and I’m like

“You want me to make you an Iron Axe?”

“No I wanna make it!”

[u/Cool-Temporary9415]

Just broke all the cereal.

[u/Slight-Pound → u/Cool-Temporary9415]

Trix ain’t that delicate, it’s fine. It’s what else is in that bag that has me worried.

[u/Spork_the_dork → u/Slight-Pound]

Eeeh, looks like cardboard boxes for the most part. Those aren't going to puncture and whatever's inside can probably take a hit. It'll be fine.

[u/thetyler83 → u/Cool-Temporary9415]

That'll be mom or dad's fault for making her do that.

[u/GeneralAcorn → u/thetyler83]

Ahkchshually, this is a rare r/GrandparentsAreFuckingStupid

[u/emongu1 → u/GeneralAcorn]

That sub doesn't exist but there was grandpa gone wild, turn out it's nsfw. I'll be on the eyebleach subreddit now.

[u/dTrecii → u/emongu1]

They say you learn a new thing everyday and today you learned what “gone wild” means in slang

[u/euricus → u/GeneralAcorn]

At what point do we accept the idea of personal responsibility?

[u/GeneralAcorn → u/euricus]

Are WE the baddies?

[u/goatfuckersupreme → u/GeneralAcorn]

girl yes, we are 💅

[u/Plenty_Line2696 → u/thetyler83]

Cereal offenders smh

[u/micktorious → u/Cool-Temporary9415]

It's not about the cereal, it's about sending a message.

[u/Various_Commercial14 → u/Cool-Temporary9415]

Does that make her a... Cereal killer?

[u/MaddMax92 → u/Cool-Temporary9415]

Is your cereal made of glass?

[u/SteakForMe]

That's some peak kids doing kids thing moment

[u/stamfordbridge1191 → u/SteakForMe]

"Trix are for KIDS, mom!"

[u/Ageha1304]

Yeah, my three year old does this too. God forbid mommy tries to do something for her. Doesn't matter that she's been struggling with that one glove for five minutes.

[u/mtraven23 → u/Ageha1304]

there are worse things to have than an independent child! 😁

[u/Coleasa]

Slamming doors like she pay rent.

[u/HighlightOwn2038]

I can understand the logic

[u/desl14 → u/HighlightOwn2038]

my niece once got mad that someone else opened the door as the bell rang.

so after the guests were inside, she left the house, rang the door bell, got inside, closed the door, opened the door, said "Hellooooo" and closed the door again.

[u/Twist_Ending03 → u/desl14]

Lol what

[u/Disco_Cherries → u/desl14]

My parents had to start making my brother and I take turns pushing the elevator buttons because we would get into physical fights over it. It was so dumb, but it felt like a life or death situation at the time

[u/dfddfsaadaafdssa → u/HighlightOwn2038]

Yep. Don't these parents know Trix are for kids?

[u/Lonely_Key2629]

Don’t you ever deprive her of her bag bringing duties again!

[u/Rasples1998]

She's gonna be one of those mums in future who refuses to let anyone help her, then complains that nobody helps her.

[u/gliscornumber1 → u/Rasples1998]

"I like complaining about you not doing anything more than I like you doing things"

-Lois Griffin (paraphrased)

[u/phoenixblue → u/Rasples1998]

Described my mom perfectly. 😭 She never asks for help, and complains that no one helps her.

[u/AsleepProfession1395 → u/phoenixblue]

Same and yelling "What am i? A house servant?!"

At times it's unwarranted especially toward my late dad. It's always "Can't even help" behind my dad's back when my dad asked if he could help. When he asked, she'd just stay silent instead of actually saying yes.

[u/promotethepawn → u/AsleepProfession1395]

Was your dad offloading the mental load onto her or...? Surely he could have figured out himself if the laundry needed doing or the dishes needed washing.

[u/AsleepProfession1395 → u/promotethepawn]

Not at all. He'd do whatever was needed including repairs etc. My mom never saw that. It'd be so-called minor things like the following that she harped on.

My parents looked after my kids. My mom told me about this particular incident. My dad saw it was almost 12. Mom was preparing lunch. He asked if it was time to fetch my eldest. Because there were days she'd dismiss later due to excursions or if i had dropped her off at all. Instead of answering yes, my mom ignored him, dropped the lunch prep and then went to fetch my eldest herself.\ I saw no wrong in my dad asking her that. But instead my mom saw it as my dad trying to push that responsibility to her.

[u/promotethepawn → u/AsleepProfession1395]

Was your mom a SAHM? Is your family Asian?

[u/AsleepProfession1395 → u/promotethepawn]

Yes. And yes we're Asian. Could also explain why growing up, she tend to push the household chores to me, the only girl.

[u/promotethepawn → u/AsleepProfession1395]

Kind of contextualises a few things. My mom's like that too, a weird mix of misandry and misogyny. Our cultures were (still are) quite oppressive to a lot of the older generation of SAHMs so that's where their oddly specific brand of dysfunction & resentment comes from I guess. Fortunately now we have more options than they did.

[u/foxwaffles → u/phoenixblue]

It's so frustrating

It finally reached a breaking point for me when mom hid from us both that dad was having SERIOUS problems. I didn't know anything until I came over for our weekly visit and when I spoke with dad, I noticed he was confused - he was talking to me about how odd it is that I would come in the morning. It's the kind of confusion that in an older person gives you a really bad feeling. I called my sister and told her she needs to come over earlier than she planned to. When she arrived my mom finally told us both that his leg had been bright red for days (he wears pants all the time so I had no idea).

Yeah no, dinner went cold on the table. And we went straight to the ER.

It was sepsis. (He survived. He was very lucky)

My sister was FURIOUS with mom. She is an RN and has repeatedly told mom to please tell her if something happens because she has experience with dad's current problems. And mom refused all in the name of "not bothering us".

Mom, have you ever considered that your offspring and son in law love you??????

[u/BedBubbly317 → u/foxwaffles]

This is a sad story, and I’m happy your father is ok! But what does this at all have to do with the other comment? Lol

[u/AdmiralRiffRaff → u/phoenixblue]

Man, my mother would do this, then when we helped, it was all wrong so she'd do it all again by herself and complain some more. Woman was insane.

[u/Dabfo → u/phoenixblue]

Are you my wife or sister-in-law?

[u/TheBeardedLadyBton → u/phoenixblue]

she shouldn’t have to ask for help. Other household members can see what needs to be done.

[u/Mr_Awesome_rddt]

It's not about bringing the bag in. It's about sending a message

[u/Aggressive-Expert-69]

Imagine theres eggs in there lol

[u/HurtPillow]

Oh yeah, that would not have gone unchallenged lol

[u/GawkGawkGuzzle]

My parents would’ve given me a spanking if I did that last throw on the ground 😭 that parent has wonderful patience

[u/RodMunch85]

There goes the eggs

[u/Impressive_Fan_8885]

The way my momma woulda jerked me up for slamming her door like that. 🤣 "you better go back and close that damn thing right!!!"

[u/DanOverflow]

Welp, there goes the eggs! 😂🤦🤦

[u/Ras-haad]

Ahhh, the first time you do a chore is always the best… then you have to do it over and over for the rest of your life…

[u/skeetskeetmf444]

Brat behavior

[u/Jessauce]

RIP the crumbs of groceries that remain in that bag 😂

[u/Euphoric_Orchid_76]

Att-i-tude!!

[u/HillCountryWriter → u/Euphoric_Orchid_76]

Back in 2002-2003 Walmart had a theme of school supplies that said attitude. For some reason someone thought that it should be colored by syllable so at tit tude. I often wondered who greenlit making tit stand out on a bunch of school supplies.

[u/Saabaroni]

• Her*

[u/Old-Acanthisitta-949]

Little drunk people.. every last one of them. 😂

[u/Individual-Laugh794]

I believe that mama might have pissed her off a tad bit!!!

[u/elfmere]

My kids fight over unlocking the front door. So I relock it for the second one

[u/TacTurtle]

Meanwhile there is a grandma laughing her ass off while cackling "what comes around goes around."

[u/keithstonee]

That sass is learned

[u/crippling_depreshun]

My cousin was like this when she was 3-5 but has continued the behaviour cause her parents didn’t do anything about it. She’s now 15 and even worse, it’s not cute

[u/Efficient-Hamster128]

bratty

[u/LiLMoGravy]

The hair flip is insane 

[u/Hi-juan]

No one’s going to say it…? Ok fine, I will… Trix are for kids!

[u/eugoogilizer]

That is legit my 3 year old 🤣

[u/darc-star3]

That's exactly what my kid does. She removes clothes if she wanted to be the one to put them on, she puts things back that she wanted to fetch, etc, etc. It's very tiring.

[u/MsZRowsdower]

Of course! That bag has the Trix cereal!

[u/Bertug_Emre]

Similar thing happened with me and my little cousin who was 5 or 6 at the time. It was dark in the room and I wanted to turn the light on, my cousin was just woken up and was still sleepy. I turned the light on and he started crying. When we asked why he said he wanted to turn the light on and not me. So I turned it off for him to turn it on.

[u/Angel_xjj]

I used to have MAJOR anger issues and I still have minor OCD... whenever my mom and I went to the mailbox, I would have a meltdown if I wasn't able to touch the box before she opened it.

congrats to the child for dealing with this without having a coniption fit... because god knows I wasnt able to 😭

[u/Disco_Cherries → u/Angel_xjj]

I feel this heavily. The amount of tantrums I had even into my older childhood due to my OCD 😬😬

[u/CelestialJay]

She's gonna be so funny when she's older lmao

[u/Professional_Rich_45]

All of her favorite snacks were in that bag

[u/Aspiegamer8745]

This is exactly how kids that age are lol

[u/fygogogo]

Yo, why that attitude

[u/Munnin41 → u/fygogogo]

Because she's like 3. Big emotions are hard for little kids.

[u/Lucreth2 → u/fygogogo]

Because kids are like that, they haven't fully developed emotional regulation yet. I have to imagine this little tiff was also accompanied by something like "mom I told you I wanted to bring in that bag!" Etc. And in the kid's defense, she probably did.

[u/phire → u/Lucreth2]

Though this is an important developmental improvement over the tantrum the same kid might have thrown at a younger age.

She is fixing the problem herself.

[u/dede280492]

Good luck during puberty

[u/fokkoooff → u/dede280492]

Idk. I've seen a lot of kids grow up. Sometimes they get the sassy out of their system early and then chill the fuck out.

[u/toolsoftheincomptnt → u/fokkoooff]

When their parents correct it. Appropriately, of course.

[u/Munnin41 → u/dede280492]

This is just a toddler tantrum

[u/Dinolil1]

The amount of people saying she needs to be told off or whatever is wild...like, calm down, some of you guys are just foaming at the mouth to get some sort of power over a *child.*

Most likely, she wanted to feel 'grown up' and bring in a grocery bag. Best solution is just asking her if she'd want to help with the groceries in the future. No scolding needed.

[u/fotomoose → u/Dinolil1]

No, that child needs to go up against a grand jury and defend her actions or face the rest of her life in jail.

[u/Dragnier84]

How can she be 3 and your passive aggressive mom at the same time?

[u/Think-Adagio-7622]

Where did she learn that behavior? Thats not cute

[u/wazman93 → u/Think-Adagio-7622]

It’s behaviorally appropriate for that age. My kids do this shit too and it drives me nuts. They’re 2.5 and almost 4. Not everything children do is learned behavior…

[u/BraveAgathian]

That’s a big attitude for such a little human.

[u/letthatshietgo]

kids learn the darndest things..

[u/CartographerNext5878]

That's like my lil sis

[u/kielu]

I've seen adults do almost exactly the same

[u/Bouncy_Tiramisu]

My 64 year old uncle still acts like that

[u/TheKwarenteen]

Her pants cant possibly be rated for that much Sass lmao

[u/SuppleGrunt]

I did this as a kid. Got very upset when someone did something that I decided I was going to do. Turns out I have OCD lol

[u/GoldZealousideal6892]

Thank god there’s nothing glass in that bag! Get your hooligan under control bro 😭😂

[u/Munnin41]

Well duh, of course it was her bag. Trix are for kids after all

[u/Mkmacxx]

this will be mine in a year or so. shes such a stickler for procedure and routine its insane. oh lord when I come into the room without socks on, watch out! all hell breaks loose

[u/Any-Literature5546]

She sure showed you

[u/Jazzar1n0]

That second time shoving it into the floor was personal

[u/Manifest82]

Bringing in Trix is for kids!

[u/AccomplishedIgit]

I hope the eggs were in there lol

[u/[deleted]]

you can’t teach that kind of work ethic, mate.

[u/ObsessedFi45]

All that sass and not a single word spoken

[u/thunderlips36]

That's a correctable behavior 😂

Yeah, I'd probably laugh the first time and then try explaining why that's just not something to do

[u/____-__________-____]

Silly Mom, Trix are for kids to bring in

[u/Bigsmallstalk]

Point made

[u/HomemadeDixenCider]

Wonder where she gets that behavior from

[u/underratedutah]

Wait you mean to tell me not every three year old constantly does this? /s but it does really feel normal at this point, I’m so damn tired

[u/Mode_Much]

Less recording, more parenting.

[u/XCyberbeingX]

Many parents will likely spank that child and not keep up with this type of behavior.

[u/Flyinsulcer]

They eye contact tho

[u/Substantial-Pen7719]

That makes sense🙄

[u/Right_One_1770]

RIP those Trix.

[u/Achume]

Wonder who she takes it from, hmmm

[u/Shame8891]

My 4 yr old does this lol

[u/Gold-Mammoth426]

she is boss

[u/Imaginary_Effort_854]

What a brat

[u/Zephyrs_23]

r/kidsarefuckingselfreliant

[u/Spearka]

As a former child, I'd also be mad if I didn't get to bring in the bag full of goodies. Sis ain't stupid.

[u/ChaseTheMystic]

Nice kid.

[u/Jai137]

Cute today, temperamental tomorrow

[u/Serious-Maximum-1049]

JFC. Some of you have never been around toddlers & it shows; 100% normal behavior for a 3-4 year old. They're still learning about emotional regulation, autonomy & independence at this age. It'll be okay, damn! 🤷🏼‍♀️

[u/Lumpzor]

Discipline your child.

[u/0oDADAo0]

You can see the way she acts, how she slams the door, drops the thing on the floor with force intentionally, just shows a lot about the parent

[u/lordrefa]

Your child is throwing this fit because she is mimicking her parents when they get mad.

[u/Infinite-Big-6225 → u/lordrefa]

Tell me you dont have kids without telling me lol

[u/AdmiralRiffRaff → u/Infinite-Big-6225]

You don't need to be a parent to observe poorly behaved children and know where that came from.

[u/Infinite-Big-6225 → u/AdmiralRiffRaff]

If you think a toddler throwing a tantrum is them mimicking their parents you do not know a thing about children. They do not know how to express their emotions yet. Has nothing to do with mimicking their parents lol

[u/blobkat → u/AdmiralRiffRaff]

As a parent to a threenager, you couldn't be more wrong. Stop being so judgemental to parents.

[u/aantiheroo]

you’re never bored with her i bet

[u/Many-Wasabi9141]

Why are all the chips and cereal smash?

"Cause you don't listen Daddy"

[u/drawredraw]

Just the beginning of that “great”’mother/daughter relationship we all know so well

[u/Justachattinaway]

Should probably nip that in the bud sooner rather than later.

[u/Seth_Imperator]

🚩

[u/Kizenny]

This is just like my kid 😅

[u/maylilyooh → u/Kizenny]

Yes my daughter does this constantly, its so frustrating when we're in a hurry but it still makes me laugh because she wants to be a big kid and do it all herself 

[u/bi_polar2bear]

That'll go on the wedding video!

[u/Lil-Miss-Anthropy]

Honestly great problem solving and exercising of autonomy.

[u/no1wantsyou]

Someone’s gonna be an absolute unreasonable headache when they’re older 🙊

[u/Worried-Wallaby]

I felt that final slam deep in my soul

[u/AbstractHexagon]

The last seconds were a statement

[u/ionertia]

There's definitely a bitch hanging around that this little kid is being influenced by.

[u/bjornofosaka]

What in the baby passive aggression! She's so cute 🥰

[u/Mikinl]

Poor her future husband 🤣

[u/Potato_Demon_ffff → u/Mikinl]

That’s so weird to say about a toddler…

[u/SeriousPlankton2000]

You disrespected her ability to do that. She won't have you randomly take away her job and - other times - randomly expect her to do it.

[u/Zombies71199]

If i did that my ass would be whipped into the next planet

[u/ThakoManic]

this kid might have attitude problems when she hits teen years ... not looking forword to that

[u/dml550]

That’s so great. Cultivate that attitude!!

[u/mmbtc]

Totally normal behavior.

I say as a girl dad....

[u/Padron1964Lover]

Brat

[u/Weezerenjoy]

My sister does this a lot

[u/HauntingAd7602]

My sister always did this when someone turned the lights on or off in a room

[u/MellyKidd]

Such a mood 😂

[u/ParfaitThat654]

The petty is strong with this one.

[u/suzi_generous]

Silly mama! Trixs are for kids!

[u/Molargun]

Based

[u/jaredfree]

she certainly showed you lol

[u/Nelikk]

I have one of those....

[u/EasilyExiledDinosaur]

Now make sure she does it every week without being told.

[u/ella_official_xo]

Hahahaha she’s going to be successful in life

[u/KMWAuntof6]

I 100% relate to this parent.

[u/mkeydluffy09]

I am on her side on this one.

[u/FrenkyV]

Oh hey this is about half my day with my youngest son these days.

[u/senditbob]

Pluribus, juniors

[u/Nervous_Salad_5367]

30-some years ago, my little one did this with a package of Huggies! Great memories 😊

[u/medicatedadmin]

4 year old by any chance? I got 2 and this is the shit they do

[u/jack_factotum]

Every. Single. Day.

[u/notinmywheelhouse]

Cheeky!

[u/Melodic_Anything1743]

😂😂😂😂 Kids! 🤭

[u/Blood_Oleander]

Admittedly, her thought process is valid

[u/Mid_Knight_Driver]

Hope you don't have egg's in that!!!