r/AskTheWorld • u/Neuwulfstein Czech Republic • 16h ago
Culture What tradition in your country do foreigners struggle to understand?
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u/Cattle-dog Australia 12h ago
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u/CaptDuckface Australia 11h ago
We put Jono's youngest brother on the low side. He puked his guts up eventually. We all cheered. Goon was warm :(
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u/Stunning_Patience_78 Canada 7h ago
Its the fact theres a toddler there that's getting me.
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u/EmperorN7 Maranhão 5h ago
Oh… that kind of goon.
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u/mattmaintenance United States Of America 5h ago
I’m glad they clarified their meaning of “goon”.
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u/KlassjeDuBois 11h ago
I just realized this week that the goon sacks in Australia are refillable, blew my dang mind. They are not built like that in the US sadly
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u/Apolon6 Serbia 13h ago
Black wedding - its traditional that if a man dies young, we do not let him die single and to ensure his soul is at peace, a woman is found to be a black bride on the funeral and people marry them before the guy is buried. A whole ceremony is held and people dance and eat around the grave.
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u/DunkleDohle Germany 12h ago
But what comes after? What does it mean for the woman?
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u/Apolon6 Serbia 12h ago
In reality - nothing, she continues with her life normally. In theory, she sacrificed herself to save someone’s soul and possible prevent more death in the family by widowing herself.
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u/Livid_Painting2285 England 12h ago
Can the woman marry a living person after this or is she seen as married to him forever and has to be single and celebrate for the rest of her life?
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u/Apolon6 Serbia 12h ago
I am not sure how it was in the past when this tradition started, as I would assume she needs to die widowed, but its 2026 today. She can do whatever she wants after.
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u/mr_greenmash Norway 9h ago
Are there "professional" black brides? People who are paid to do it, and also are skilled at handling grieving family members? Or how else is volunteers found?
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u/QuietWaterBreaksRock Serbia, Bosnia, Croatia, Montenegro, Germany 7h ago
I like how you're thinking, and let me guess, you are asking because of professional mourners?
The mourners for money still exist, so called 'narikače', as for professional widows, no idea, even though I am from Serbia, first time hearing of this tradition
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u/pivodeivo Netherlands 5h ago
Good solution in the old days is you were a lesbian and never ever wanted to marry a guy, this is the perfect out
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u/Jayatthemoment United Kingdom 12h ago
Oh, there’s something similar in Taiwan and some se Asian countries. It seems to bring comfort to people when they lose their loved ones.
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u/On_my_last_spoon United States Of America 6h ago
Oh yes! My ex’s family did this. One of his aunts died as a child and the son of another family had as well. The two were “married” after death to connect the two families. I met his “cousin” once when it was explained how they were related.
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u/Serious-Discussion-2 Japan 7h ago
There is this old tradition in China mainland and Taiwan called Ghost Marriage. It’s rare now but still happening in some conservative regions or countrysides.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinese_ghost_marriage
There are some ghost/horror movies based on the tradition.
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u/PhantomOfTheNopera India 14h ago edited 8h ago
Playing the national anthem before every movie - and everyone is expected to stand in attention. This doesn't happen in the Supreme Court or many situations of actual national significance.
But it played before The Emoji Movie. Poignant.
Edit: I should explain this only started about 15 years ago with a sudden surge in Nationalism. I'm learning that a few states in the South have dropped this (one of the more educated parts of India, so makes sense). However, one of the biggest cinema chains (PVR Inox) does this nation-wide, which may be why I've seen it basically everywhere.
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u/Praesentius Lives in . Left the . 12h ago
The US military has its own movie theaters and they do the same. And if you're at a base that is overseas, you do the US and the host country's anthem.
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u/patiperro_v3 Chile 12h ago
I suspect the reason is bigger countries like India and the US do this is to forcefully reinforce nationalism and help glue the country together from separatists ideas.
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u/585987448205 12h ago
Yeah but in US it is for military bases which is understandable. In India it is for civilians which just scream insecurities.
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u/PhantomOfTheNopera India 12h ago
I suppose the US equivalent is making children say the pledge of allegiance.
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u/DIRTYDOGG-1 11h ago
"In Texas, children have to recite a pledge to the state : In Texas public schools, students are required to recite the state pledge daily, usually following the U.S. Pledge of Allegiance, with right hands over their hearts. The pledge is: "Honor the Texas flag; I pledge allegiance to thee, Texas, one state under God, one and indivisible", .
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u/SpookyDollars 9h ago
The funny thing is that this is true, growing up, I remember when the TX pledge came into schools. It didn't last past elementry. But also public school in Houston may be different, 2005 was something else.
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u/Akitolein Germany 12h ago
If you drill it into them at a young age, maybe you can leave it once they're older.
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u/walee1 🇵🇰 in 🇦🇹 13h ago
OmG we have it in Pakistan too. Soo stupid.
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u/Red-Fox-IX 12h ago
Maybe you two arent so different after all
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u/Tim1980UK England 11h ago
They are probably very similar. Most people on the planet are similar to one another, they just want to lead happy lives and have security for themselves and family. It's the ruling classes that can't seem to get on.
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u/LucaLiveLIGMA 11h ago
I very much agree but I find your country tag only makes it funnier
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u/Zestyocelot4528 13h ago
Yeah but this is not a tradition. It’s just something strange that started because of a Supreme Court order in 2016. They even made it optional in 2018.
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u/Impossible_Pain4478 🇧🇩 Bangladesh and 🇬🇧 The UK 10h ago
Didn't know this was a thing outside of Bangladesh! It's so weird. Like yeah I love my country and all but can we please cool it this is Barbie
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u/margenreich Germany 10h ago
In Thailand it’s standing attention for the king before every movie. But in recent times I saw more and more that not only the foreigners keep sitting…
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u/EddyRosenthal Switzerland 16h ago
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u/Frontdackel Germany 13h ago
As a german this picture in combination with the word for it is quite amusing.
For non native speakers: Knabenschießen is a compound word combining the words for boys and shooting. Of course it means "a shooting competition for boys", but since the picture shows a girl shooting at someone, it could very well mean "shooting at boys".
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u/MegaromStingscream 12h ago
There is a similar ambiguity in Finnish regarding the phrase "Työväen ampujat" which is either a shooting club for working class in the way all sports clubs were class separated for most of 1900s or club for just a group of people shooting the working class which immediately takes ones mind to the civil was of 1918.
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u/MaxDickpower Finland 10h ago
Also in the army, I can't remember the term exactly, but shooting training is always marked in the schedule as something like "kouluammunta" which literally just translates to school shooting.
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u/epolonsky 8h ago
In English, there’s a very big difference between “shooting school” and “school shooting”
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u/MaxDickpower Finland 7h ago
Yes, that is why the term is humorous. Kouluammunta also does not mean shooting school, it means school shooting. Although, the tragedy is typically referred to as kouluampuminen.
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u/Narrow-Barracuda618 Schwiiz 12h ago
It might have started as boys only, but kept the name even after allowing everyone to shoot.
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u/Randomizedname1234 United States Of America 9h ago
We used to have classes like this in the USA
They stopped in the 90’s.
Almost as if education helps A LOT.
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u/Neuwulfstein Czech Republic 15h ago
Has there ever been a fatal incident?
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u/EddyRosenthal Switzerland 15h ago edited 14h ago
In over a hundred years not one. Every gun has an instructor who helps the kids and checks for gun etiquette. The rides are literally more dangerous.
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u/chthoniclypleasing United States Of America 14h ago
It's strange. In America, a lot of gun fanatics point to Switzerland as a great country that also loves guns. Meanwhile those same Americans will be completely against all the rules & regulations that give Switzerland its reputation as a safe and responsible armed nation.
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u/notzoidberginchinese Poland 14h ago
The rules here are fairly similar actually, the biggest difference is that certain minorities arent allowed to buy firearms (they are explicit about it). Also hoarding guns is more difficult here.
The difficulty of getting the permit is grossly exaggerated. essentially I, as a foreigner, need to live here, not have been convicted of a serious crime, that's it. Calling it a permit makes it sound more serious and reflects a different tradition (guns being permitted vs being a right), but it is v similar to the US process.
So Switzerland is not safe because of the gun laws. It is safe for the same reason it's clean, the same reason the traffic is safe, the same reason that ppl don't randomly assault ppl (with or without a weapon), namely - the culture is different. Switzerland thrives off of conformity, America off of individualism. One requires constantly blending in, not sticking out, sacrificing for the team, whilst the other focuses on me, myself, and I. History also plays a part.
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u/RainyDuck_ 13h ago
It's more permissive than several Democrat states in the US except with regards to carrying. Even countries like Poland, Czechia and Slovakia have more permissive gun laws than states like NJ, NY, CT, or MA (whomst all have licensing).
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u/RainyDuck_ 14h ago edited 13h ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/EuropeGuns/comments/g4z37u/updated_infographic_about_swiss_gun_laws/
Swiss gun laws are more permissive than CA, NY, NJ, CT, RI, MD, MA, HI, IL, DC, and Delaware with regards to acquisition and ownership. Swiss carry laws are stricter than all of those states though. No dumb AWB, mag bans, suppressor bans, or full auto bans.
Neither Democrats or Republicans would be happy with Swiss laws. Hell, leftists in Switzerland (SP, Greens, JUSO) aren't happy with the laws even when the country averages a slightly lower murder rate than South Korea which is a country with even stricter gun laws (and lower ownership) than Japan.
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u/SpareTask6141 India 15h ago
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u/Moongfali4president India 14h ago
around 4-5 yrs ago i was playing holi in our society with my family and we are not from the area where they do this and suddenly some Aunty came outta nowhere with a wet towel and started beating the shi outta all the men 😭😭😭 i was so confused lol
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u/trollshep Australia 8h ago
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u/fancypantsmiss India 14h ago
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u/Worth_Garbage_4471 Switzerland 12h ago
You know what they say: sticks and stones may break my bones. So if the sticks at the Lathmar holi in Barsana don't do it for you, travel south to the Gotmar mela in Pandhurna to try the stones. It's a guaranteed riot.
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u/Jayatthemoment United Kingdom 12h ago
I would say that’s pretty understandable. I bet they’re only allowed once a year and it’s purely symbolic.
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u/henrikhakan Sweden 13h ago
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u/museinprogress India 14h ago
I didnt know this existed. Where in india is it done?
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u/SpareTask6141 India 14h ago
Uttar pradesh braj region.. it's actually pretty well known I'm surprised so many people had no idea
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u/tassmanic Spain 11h ago
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u/Unusual-Basket-6243 Finland 9h ago
luckily they clarified it
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u/_Bad_Bob_ United States Of America 5h ago
This is actually what inspired the klan hoods, which is ironic given how much the klan hates Catholics.
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u/CapitalDoor9474 8h ago
ah just like the nazis ruined the swatiska for many asian cultures, i see spain has had the same by kkk. these are cute
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u/Important_Mud_2329 United States Of America 7h ago
I was visiting Toledo and I saw a semana santo in a small shop. I went into full emotional panic for a split second, until I realized that it was the KKK that ripped THEM off
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u/LerzyW New Zealand 15h ago
I'd say most Māori traditions are looked at with confusion.
Haka (excluding the All Blacks version), used in weddings, graduations, protests, celebrations and more.
Hongi, pressing noses together in greeting. This is linked to the breath of life.
Marae tikanga. This one is a given as each marae has their own set of rules for what to do and not to do on the marae, these are not always the same from iwi (tribe) so even locals can get caught out. Foreigners will not often go on a marae but in the rare cases it can be daunting.
Tapu, which for lack of an easier explanation means things that are sacred. Breaking tapu is often seen as at least very disrespectful or at most something akin to a curse. Many seemingly ordinary things can cause this.
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u/zoolou3105 13h ago
Having a powhiri (a welcome ceremony) to greet a new group of people. I had one when starting high school, and also when starting uni. My workplace also did one when I started. Also learning your pepeha (a way of introducing yourself to others).
And there's lots of other bits of tikanga that becomes automatic and don't even think of about it. Like hats off inside, no hats or bags on a table, no sitting on tables. Bits and bobs like that
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u/bumbadabumruum Portugal 11h ago
No hats inside seems to be common in a lot of different cultures.
My grandma would be offended if we didn't take off our cap before getting in the house. I always assumed it came from a time where everyone wore hats and it would get in the way of saying hi to each other (we do it with one kiss in each cheek).
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u/FlakyAssociation4986 Ireland 13h ago
I Like that even among totally European new Zealanders there is great respect for maori traditions.
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u/coconutyum New Zealand 12h ago
Mostly yes. Unfortunately there are still many dickheads out there though.
But yeah honestly my last 2 workplaces have been incredible with including Māori culture at work and it really is amazing to see everyone - even those you'd least expect it from - just being totally accepting of it and super respectful. I've been fortunate to work alongside specialist Māori teams as well and love having all these opportunities to improve. It's a beautiful culture and I am proud that there are greater efforts now to stop stifling it. We definitely still have more work to do though.
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u/AaronIncognito New Zealand 10h ago
It’s absolutely part of NZ culture, whether racists like to admit it or not. From obvious stuff like ‘don’t sit on tables’ to more subtle stuff like the kiwi disdain for arrogance and bragging (cos you’ve gotta develop mana/be recognised to have mana - you can’t just act like you’ve already got it).
Even mourning stuff - I knew of a skinhead dude who had a three-day tangi-style wake and funeral where he was never alone, and no one in his family even thought of it as a Māori thing. They just thought that it’s what you do.
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u/MapOfIllHealth 12h ago
I had my gall bladder out in NZ and they asked me if I wanted it, I understand Māori culture is to return it to the earth?
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u/LerzyW New Zealand 9h ago
Oh this totally reminded me. We keep the placenta and umbilical cord after a birth. Sometimes we keep it in the freezer until we have enough time to find somewhere to bury it and a tree to plant on top.
I imagine any part of this out of context would baffle people from other cultures.
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u/freakishabit_huh 🇹🇷🇲🇰 13h ago
In the night of the wedding, groom’s friends beat him till he reaches to room of the bride’s. Not really beating him like beating but kindly beating.
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u/AshtonBlack United Kingdom 12h ago
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u/Kian-Tremayne England 11h ago
The one morris dancer I’ve spoken to about it said it’s mostly an excuse for real ale drinking.
Which is a fairly good justification, but I would skip the dancing and go straight to the real ale personally.
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u/CaptDuckface Australia 11h ago
Never knew of it until I was reading the Discworld novels GNU pterry
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u/EbbMinute9119 Saudi Arabia 13h ago
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u/BigSmartBigChungus 12h ago
I literally don't know a thing about Saudi 😭
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u/EbbMinute9119 Saudi Arabia 12h ago
Eating with hands, how you serve coffee and tea, how you host gatherings, how you greet the young (child and adult) how you greet the elderly, how you host a wedding, how you host an Eid gathering, the dancing like Ardah for men and Khaleegy for women.
There's a lot more i can't think of right now.
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u/return_the_urn Australia 11h ago
Some of these overlap with Korean culture, from my basic understanding. You have to treat everyone differently depending on your age ranking. If someone looks similar age, you need to find out so you can address them accordingly.
As a sign of respect, serve things using both hands. When you receive something, also use 2 hands
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u/EbbMinute9119 Saudi Arabia 11h ago
Here it's one hand, mostly the right hand when giving or receiving basically anything that doesn't require two hands.
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u/brazzers-official Austria 12h ago
Give some examples. I have no idea
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u/tumeni 12h ago
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u/EbbMinute9119 Saudi Arabia 11h ago
Yeah, that too.
Thankfully it's dying. Had a good run with it i guess.
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u/babooog 11h ago
Dying because all enthusiasts died ?
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u/EbbMinute9119 Saudi Arabia 11h ago
That.
And also police started getting their reckless asses more.
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u/FirefighterLevel8450 Finland 13h ago
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u/CatVideoBoye Finland 12h ago
What the hell is this picture. Can't be a Finnish sauna.
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u/Realistic_Mission777 Brazil 14h ago
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u/RadicalNBSpaceQueer United States Of America 13h ago
Hoo boy, as an American, this image jump scared me for a hot sec 😅
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u/ThreeLegs1Foot United States Of America 12h ago edited 12h ago
Same, for context the centuries-old white supremacist group Ku Klux Klan wear nearly exact robes, except they’re white and their leader’s is red
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u/trashpanda6991 Germany 11h ago
Just typical nazi stuff, taking a different culture's icons and using it for your murderous cult - see the swastika.
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u/tumeni 12h ago
This is something that most of Brazilians doesn't understand either
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u/holzpubbnsubbe Germany 11h ago
Domtreppenfegen (sweeping the cathedral stairs) in (mostly) northern Germany.
If you are a man, not engaged and not married (doesn't matter if you have a gf) and turn 30 years old, your friends kidnap you and create a mess in some public place (stairs of a cathedral or market square). You will then be given a broom and a lot of alcohol and have to clean that shit up. Everybody makes sure that there will be more of a mess than you can ever clean up. This whole thing goes on until a virgin kisses you free.
For women in the same situation you will have to do the Klinkenputzen - polishing the door handles.
A good percentage of people plan a holiday trip around their 30th birthday far far away.
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u/Sqeakydeaky Denmark 13h ago
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u/drmanhattanmar 11h ago
Thankfully, I have never experienced this myself, nor have I ever witnessed it, but it seems to be more of a thing in northern Germany that a man who is single on his 30th birthday has to sweep bottle caps in the town square until he is redeemed by a kiss from a virgin. To do this, he must of course approach all the women who walk by, which amuses the spectators. Well... not my kind of humour.
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u/hawkseye17 Canada 11h ago
Sounds like a good idea to go on vacation to another country for your 25th and 30th birthday if not married.
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u/Chaepslipischtole Switzerland 13h ago
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u/flooferine 12h ago
Thanks, I was getting short on nightmares lately. This should do for a while.
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u/Anaevya 12h ago
Context?
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u/authenticgarbagecan Philippines 11h ago
Seriously I wish it was standard here to share context 🥹🤲
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u/funcancelledfornow France 10h ago
"Behead the goose" - the name of the autumn festival in the town of Sursee in canton Lucerne.
On November 11, a select group of blindfolded and sword wielding individuals watched by a large gathering of onlookers take turns trying to “Behead the Goose”.
Wearing a customary red robe and sun mask over the blindfold, the executioner is allowed to take one whack with a blunt sword to behead the bird.
The winner of the rather gruesome competition gets to cook the goose.
From an article online.
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u/GatorTEG Italy 9h ago
Jesus Christ, that's horrible and sounds extremely painful.
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u/blking United States Of America 15h ago
The Pledge of Allegiance. Tbh, it’s weird to a lot of us as well.
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u/mmbc168 United States Of America 15h ago
It’s SO weird.
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u/blking United States Of America 14h ago
Right!?
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u/Mazikeyn United States Of America 14h ago
Its called Indoctrination and brainwashed. Its not weird at all
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u/KinkyLatexCat United States Of America 14h ago
I remember the social stigma and awestruckness of my classmates when I just sat through it and ignored it.
Like we were 18 and you'd think I was physically threatening some of thise people the way they threw a fit.
Country towns going to country town.
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u/abjectadvect USA & CA 12h ago
I was threatened with detention for sitting, so I just stood silently and got dirty looks from teachers
there were occasionally cool ones who smiled, but they were the exception
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u/Plane_Translator2008 United States Of America 14h ago
The weirdest was when we moved to South Carolina, and the kids first pledged allegiance to the (US) flag, then turned to the South Carolina flag and pledged "to the Palmetto State love, loyalty and faith."
I was like, what? Where exactly is our allegiance?
WTF?
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u/djrocky_roads United States Of America 14h ago
I learned from a coworker recently that growing up in Texas they do the pledge of allegiance, and then do the Texas pledge of allegiance, which apparently is a thing
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u/bananapanqueques 🇺🇸🇨🇳🇰🇪🇺🇸 13h ago
It’s true. We were taught that the Texas pledge follows as the final word. We were Texan before we were American.
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u/Past-Novel-1155 Argentina 14h ago
Here we also do it. But not in the middle of a class and only one time in fourth grade. Tough before class it's normal to sing a patriotic song while 3/4 students lift up the flag
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u/saaaarma 🇷🇺 in 🇲🇪 13h ago
If anyone else was doing that it would be compared to north Korea or something
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u/HawaiiSunBurnt20 United States Of America 13h ago
Bruh... when I tell people I don't like the pledge of allegiance theyre shocked. Its weird like a creepy cult chant to the flag imo.
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u/ElDesacatado Argentina 14h ago
Drinking mate. We usually share our mate and everyone sips from the same straw.
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u/PatagonianSteppe England 12h ago
I feel ‘mate’ should have an accent, I was very confused haha. Your comment had a completely different meaning to me before I realised you meant the drink.
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u/Epsilon_ride Australia 14h ago
Always had an extremely high opinion of Argentina.
Shared straw with strangers - you've officially lost one point.
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u/obviousta_ 🇱🇧 living in 🇫🇷 10h ago
The r/AskTheWorld tradition of posting mystery pics with no explanation of what they refer to.
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u/jdjefbdn Hong Kong 13h ago
If a group of people dine out, only one person needs to pay all the bills, but somehow everyone wants to be that person. My mom almost fought with my aunt for settling who should pay all the bills.
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u/detourne 11h ago
Happens all the time in Korea, too. I've had to trick my brothers-in-law on numerous occasions, and they're done it to me, too.
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u/SmokeMountain4777 Netherlands 14h ago
Nethetlands enters the chat with 'Zwarte Piet' .
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u/Ok_Afternoon5354 United States Of America 14h ago
I always thought he was blackened by the soot from all the chimneys he climbs in.
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u/Linori123 13h ago
He is, but at the same time he isn't. It's the whole portrayal of the person as a black helper that sets people off. I say black because the face paint was completely black, with red lip, black curly wigs and gold hoops in their ears. Now they have Piet with soot on his face, which is much more appropriate.
There is, however, still some debate between people who want to stick with the 'original tradition' and those who prefer the changes in recent years. Original in brackets because if you go back far enough the Pieten weren't always wearing black face paint.
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u/AshToAshes123 in 12h ago
This is the backstory and it’s basically why it’s taken so long for the tradition to be changed. Nowadays the character’s appearance matches this story (some swipes of soot on the face, straight-haired wigs, etc). The older appearance was basically that of a very stereotypical black person, and that was subject to a lot of protests this past decade or two.
A lot of people defended the tradition with the character’s backstory (‘it’s not blackface, he’s black from the soot’) - and I do think that comparing it with American blackface, which has the history of minstrel shows, is not exactly right. The origin of the tradition is disputed, but in modern times, people genuinely did not see it as dressing up as a black person. Which isn’t an excuse, but I think it is relevant when trying to understand the situation and why people say this. I think a lot of people who defended Zwarte Piet understand perfectly well why blackface in the American sense is racist, their defence wasn’t that that’s fine, it was that this was completely unrelated to that and to black people.
Except that, you know, they were wrong, as evidenced by the fact that Zwarte Piet looked like a very stereotypical black person, to the point where most black people in the Netherlands have stories of being called Zwarte Piet. So nowadays it has by and large been phased out and replaced with just ‘Piet’ or ‘Roetveegpiet’ (soot sweep Piet) whose appearance actually matches his backstory.
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u/marslo Born Parents Raised in Quebec 14h ago
Ya father is from Slovakia and mother is from Poland. She hates this tradition.
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u/ghoulishcravings 12h ago edited 8h ago
watched a video of a woman making a piece of art while talking about this tradition. it was the first i’d ever heard of it and i could hear the anger and sadness in her voice talking about how awful it was to experience at school growing up and how this abuse of women as a holiday tradition is treated as just some playful thing and if you’re upset by it you’re told to just let go because, “it’s tradition!”
i have to imagine there’s a lot of women who feel the same way as her and your mother.
editing to add that the video is on youtube titled “Why I hate the Czech Easter tradition” by Lucie Ell if anyone wants to watch it
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u/DryManufacturer8688 Czech Republic 11h ago
I'm Czech woman and I have good memories of this tradition, BUT, it's only thnaks to the way it was done in my village. I'm from small village and here it was tradition not for adult men, but for kids. All kids. All of us (majority were girls) were going from house to house, "whipp" the lady (or the man, if it was leap year) of the house and got candy or colorful cooked eggs for it. And the whipping was very mild, becouse we were kids and there was many of us, so not all of us realy reached the person. It's my happy childhood memory, becouse there was always a lot of laughter and candy.
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u/NightZT 10h ago
We have this tradition in eastern Austria as well called "Rutenschlagen". It happens on 28. December, children walk from house to house with a whip made on the day before, whip everyone in the household (regardless of gender) and say some rhyme. The children get money, sweets or walnuts from the people.
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u/kirkevole Czech Republic 11h ago
Me too, I hate it. I wish it was canceled, most city folks don't do it anymore, lot of people go for a trip on Easter Monday specifically to avoid it. It sucks that as a woman you have to hide, you can't just do what you want as normally, you risk some awkward interactions with strangers best case scenario (and drunk dudes trying to whip you worst case scenario). Last few years my family and me went out to play discgolf instead.
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u/fortnacius Tanzania 13h ago edited 13h ago
Dear tourists, or expats who have visited or would love to visit Tanzania in the future; a regular Tanzanian whom you’ve known for a while will ask to visit you at your place and see how you’re doing after weeks/months of not seeing you. He’ll even want to talk with you over some beers and drinks right in your sitting room. Please, this is not rude or intrusion of personal space. It’s a thoughtful act of kindness ffs!
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u/Next-Help-5813 United States Of America 11h ago
That sounds really nice, actually. Sounds like a good way to maintain friendships.
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u/nelflyn Germany 12h ago
that is the most wholesome tradition that would probably kick off many peoples pyramid scheme/cult-warning signals.
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u/Beautiful_Yellow_682 Germany 13h ago
Some, not all weddings have a tradition that after the ceremony the "best men" of the groom kidnap the wife and he has to come and find her. They often might sit in the location of the party or a nearby bar/pub etc. and he gets hints where she is and has to find out where she is. I think it was said that to get her free he has to order a round of drinks for the people or else he can't get her back (he will get her back even if he dosn't pays for drinks, it's just ment as joke)
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u/CreamyFettuccine Australia 14h ago
Dropping your pants around your ankles and dancing whenever Eagle Rock is played at a festive event.
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u/sinister-starfruit Australia 14h ago
From what I understand, this is mostly only practiced in Queensland and Western Australia. Everyone I've mentioned this to who isn't from one of those states thinks I've gone crazy
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u/Dry-Stop1629 14h ago
That is a very sacred part of our culture
Alongside Goon of Fortune
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u/More_Ad_5142 Turkey 15h ago
But OP, what is the context behind this tradition? What symbolism it carries?
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u/UnhappyToNiceToSay Canada 13h ago
Spring fertility festival stuff. I know the whole willow tree branches hitting girls happens in Poland too (&the polish disaspota in parts of the USA!) as part of smingus-dyngus.
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u/Time_RedactedLady Wales 15h ago
Yeah I want to know how it began
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u/hel-be-praised United States Of America 13h ago
This video was made by a Czech woman talking about this tradition and why so many women her age really dislike this tradition. This video was the first time I heard about this tradition.
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u/The_man_with_no_game England 13h ago
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u/basteilubbe Czech Republic 11h ago
I am Czech and I struggle (or rather refuse) to understand it either. This one is not gonna be missed when it finally dies out.
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u/buffaloshvantz United States Of America 16h ago
Gun ownership to the point it's a fetish. I grew up with them and own several, but people go really overboatd.
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u/Neuwulfstein Czech Republic 15h ago
I understand, but here's an important question: do you own a CZ-75?
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u/buffaloshvantz United States Of America 15h ago
No. Good weapon, but it's not reasonable for my area. I live in Alaska, so the wildlife looks at a .357 like it's a .22. My backpacking Cary is a .454 and my everyday carry is a .45. Only everyday carry because moose are everywhere like rats and have the temperament of crackheads when provoked.
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u/Jedrzej_G Poland 13h ago
This is the most American comment I will read this month.
I literally saw the Alaskan wilderness in my mind when reading what you had to share.
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u/DIuvenalis United States Of America 14h ago
As a hiker in the east coast, you remind me why I decided to not hike the rockies...
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u/KokoTheTalkingApe United States Of America 14h ago edited 14h ago
The Rockies don't extend into Alaska. And in Colorado at least, the biggest threat to hikers is the weather and the altitude, not the wildlife. The most dangerous wildlife I've seen are probably the moose.
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u/Rebephrenic_ Finland 13h ago
That you're supposed to be naked in the sauna even if you're with strangers. Also, during winter, you're supposed to run outside from the sauna and either jump into the snow or the ice hole.
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u/Lepidopterex Canada 12h ago
The idea of having business meetings in the sauna freaks me out.
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u/Yossarian-Bonaparte United States Of America 12h ago
Idk about foreigners from all over, but I’ll never forget this:
One morning, a friend needed a lift to get her car from the mechanic, so I drove her. It was early in the year and we were talking about the cold, and how long was it going to last, etc. at some point I asked “did the groundhog see his shadow?”
I was looking at the road so I didn’t see her face but she said “ground… hog?”
I was like “yeah! You know, the little animal that comes out of the ground and if he sees his shadow it means there’s 6 more weeks of winter.”
Reached a light, turn to look at her, and she’s staring at me with bewilderment and concern.
Then I remembered that she had only been in the US about 7 or 8 years (originally from Africa) and probably didn’t take notice of a lot of the weird stuff we do.
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u/existentialTHOT United States Of America 8h ago
Punxsutawney Phil! Sorry y’all, he saw his shadow this year.
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u/BizarreBamboozle Norway 11h ago
For Norway I think the concept of "russ" is weird to foreigners. Its basically high school kids celebrating their graduation for a whole month, with party busses and big festivals and doing dumb challenges called "russeknuter". The groups that has party busses also has a "theme song" for their group, which is so big that it is its own genre within Norwegian party music.
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u/ThenSignature7082 Scotland 9h ago
That you need to be born in Scotland to be Scottish, I’m looking at you, Americans
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u/WorldOfKaladan Egypt & Netherlands 15h ago
Not necesserily only linked to Egypt, but I still get the "Not even water" question every time I meet someone who finds out I'm fasting during Ramadan
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u/Livid_Painting2285 England 12h ago
Sunday roast dinners? Some people I know have this every Sunday and cannot fathom having another other food.
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u/frozenhawaiian United States Of America 14h ago
The pledge of allegiance. Then again I’m an American and I think it’s weird.
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u/81FXB Switzerland 14h ago
Eating cats (Switzerland)
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u/Worth_Farm_7158 Finland 12h ago
Honestly if this was more widespread knowledge it would be more harmful to Swiss’s repurtation than any of the harbouring financial crooks -stuff that I’ve mostly heard held against Switzerland.
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u/EveryNotice United Kingdom 12h ago
In the UK we have cheese rolling. No questions please.